Men's logic

What do we know about man's logic, except that it is (unlike the female one), and it's iron? And nothing more. Then is it any wonder that we doubt whether it is possible to understand a man? It's good that everything is fixable, now we'll just figure out how men think, and immediately we'll begin to understand these mysterious creatures.

How do men think?

Grab your head, not knowing how to understand men's logic? "But does anyone understand it except the men themselves? All they have to count, prove, preferably with links to the Constitution. And above the intuition, these unfeeling creatures just laugh! "

Perhaps someone will agree with these words, and someone will rush to prove that men are not at all like that. The funny thing is that each of the parties will be right in their own way. So, how do men think, what is their logic based on?

  1. The logic of men is really iron, because it is built on facts. No man will make assumptions, express his opinion, taking into account rumors and gossip. That's why they chuckle at our intuition, it has nothing to do with the facts. Ask, why then, our strong halves, armed with such a powerful weapon as man's logic, often lose female intuition? It's simple, a woman is physically weaker than a man, but she is given a more subtle instinct (intuition) as compensation. It allows you to take into account the slightest changes in the situation and draw the right conclusions. But logic is not capable of this, it is good only for solving abstract problems. Often, when confronted with real events, clearly verified by the male mind, the logical chain disintegrates.
  2. Male thinking is based on a common vision of the picture, they are not interested in small things. This woman will consider the details, analyze, look for small clues. That's why a man can not notice small changes in the appearance of a loved one. The main thing that it looks is still charming, and what kind of hair color - honey or golden - does not matter.
  3. The logic of men recognizes only dry data: figures, facts. No emotional coloring, only extreme clarity and clarity. Women often rely on feelings, actually intuition and work on the slightest shades of emotion. But since in men such a flair is not developed, then they do not need emotions in assessing the situation. So do not blame your man for insensitivity if you asked his opinion about your appearance. He honestly tries to help you, just looking for facts, so that he could base his opinion on what.

How to talk to men?

It turns out that they are completely different, and how then to talk with a man, so that he understands you?

Most often, men are uncomfortable to communicate, not seeing the purpose of the conversation - an empty chatter about the weather, but they do not inspire the "Tanya's blouse". Tell me directly what you want from your interlocutor. And then he, poor thing, will be lost in your stream of words and will be angry with too long an introduction. And feel helpless to not like anybody, especially men who do not like it with their eternal desire for leadership.

Do not hesitate to ask questions. But they again must be specific, and not just "how things are at work." Firstly, to the question thus asked, you will most likely get a muffled muttering. And, secondly, such an indifferent question is more like not the beginning of a conversation, but a question of courtesy. A man will be inclined to think that you are not interested, because you are so indifferent to his work.

All the subtle hints leave for conversation with the girl-friends. A man is unlikely to understand them, or perceive, but not at all the way you wanted. The hint can be perceived as an attempt to manipulate, which no man will tolerate.

So the main rule of communication is sincerity and straightforwardness, and it will be easier for a man to talk, and we will bring our message to him.