Without quarrels and quarrels, no single married couple can do, the main thing is that these quarrels do not lead to parting. But what if this happened, how to return the love and trust of a loved one?
Is it worth trying to return a man?
Before you figure out how to return a loved one, you need to understand, but is it worth it? You say, there's nothing to find out, of course, it's worth it, it's the favorite person, the best thing in your life. But this will be said under the influence of emotions, and therefore may not be completely true. Try to assess the situation soberly and answer honestly the question of whether you were satisfied with everything in this relationship. If the answer is no, then why try to return something that did not bring you particular joy? Do you hope that everything will change? As a rule, in the relationship of such a newly reunited couple, something changes only for the worse. And to return it you will need to spend a lot of time and energy, because a man is unlikely to want to burden himself again with problems. Yes, and that this person is a favorite, too, it is not worth talking, most likely, this is one of the dependencies, getting rid of it will make you only happier.
Another option, which women sometimes dream of is to return a departed man, then throw themselves - in general from the category of kindergarten receptions. You just waste time and effort, it's better that nobody will.
Trying to renew the relationship is only if they arranged you, and you want to return the person because of him, and not because of stupid revenge. In the end, how can you return the love and trust of a loved one, if these feelings were not there?
Tips on how to return a loved one
If you still firmly decided that you are not ready to part with your loved one, listen to some tips that will help you get your loved one back:
- The first thing that psychologists advise to return to a loved one, as well as to exit from any problematic situation - is to calm down. If you act on the basis of one emotion, there is a great risk of making many erroneous steps, after which you will regret. Returning a partner you will not help. At first it is very difficult to get out of such a nervous state, thoughts constantly return to this situation, we begin to feel sorry for ourselves, tears, soothing pills, and then everything is again in a circle. To avoid this, it is necessary to take as much as possible free time. Work, hobbies, meetings with friends - it does not matter, now the main thing is to get distracted.
- And to get distracted from problems, getting pleasure from this, you need to look good. Therefore, the next thing you need to do is to take care of yourself. A beauty salon, a shopping trip to renew the wardrobe, a visit to the fitness club - everything that can help you regain your confidence and flowering appearance can be used.
- When communicating, try not to go to extremes, you do not need either demonstrative suffering or manifestations of anger. Do not talk about everything that happens in your life, imposing, you will not be of any interest to anyone. It will be better if he does not learn about your successes from you, but from mutual friends. If you do not feel the strength to adhere to a benevolent tone when speaking orally, go to the written conversations. So you will have time to double-check the message and fix the sharpness.
- If you decide to tell your loved one about your desire to return it, and he refused, do not insist on your own, beg. Psychologists advise him to let him go and disappear from his life for a week. At this time, take care of your appearance, the renewal of friendship, about which you have recently forgotten. After a period of silence, you can go to the action, but not after the return of the loved one to his home, and on becoming his friend. Hints on the return of relations should be avoided. Also, you should not start novels to spite him, and openly show your enthusiasm for someone else. And of course, when you meet, you just have to look attractive.