Each of us wants to create a harmonious and happy family . But how many girls personally destroy it? Women do not always remember that men also listen to what has been said. How not to lose with the topic for a conversation with a man ?
Why never say a man?
From the said heated phrases a man can change his behavior not for the better, and become indecisive and uninformative. Well, in the most difficult cases, he decides that with a smarter woman he will be more comfortable.
Here is a list of phrases that in no case, you can never tell a man:
- "Ooty my sweet / zainka / masenky" in public.
- Your affectionate treatment is a pleasure partner. But in public to your chosen one it is important to look representative and courageous, and not "a pretty pug". Note that if his friends hear it, then your man can be the object of their ridicule. Be careful with the limit of tenderness, so as not to disgrace his manhood.
- "Well, you promised me!". One of the leading phrases, which are taboo. If you want to remind your beloved about something, do it not in the form of reproach. All people tend to forget something, promise something. But why is it said goodbye to women, and from men it is asked in full? Be simpler. Ask why he did not do what he promised - perhaps the reason is really weighty.
- "Hmm, well, you have a hobby." Or something like that. If you do not want to make yourself an enemy in the person of your own man, do not take it in a negative way or with a sneer to respond about his hobbies. It is possible that soon he will be able to interest you with his favorite deed. Show that you like his hobbies, or, at least, do not reject them. He will be worse, treat you if you forbid him to do something. Do not press him.
- Do not tell me about your past. Especially - sexy. Each man is waiting for words in his address that he is better than those that you had before him. It will be better for you to remain silent and smile mysteriously. And do not you dare compare it to your former partners. Your current man is the first, the best and the last.
- You are unhappy with his act or gift. If a man does something for you, never laugh at him, otherwise you risk getting a guy with a traumatized mentality.
Appreciate everything that it does for you, no matter how silly and crazy it does not look. With a gift, too, everything is extremely simple - transparently hint at what you would like to receive as a gift. And if you are interested in the very fact of attention, then simply rejoice at what he has chosen for you. After all, he tried.
The task of a real woman is to help a man achieve more, strive for new achievements. Learn to communicate correctly with your man, which, perhaps, will be difficult for you. But remember that this is easier than later reaping the fruits of your mistakes.