Polygamous

"Men change, because by nature they are polygamous" - such a statement resembles the ravings of a madman and nothing more. First, so say those who do not know the definition of this term. Secondly, let's share the notions of "polygamous" and "infidelity."

About men and women

Reasoning about the polygamousness of people should start with the meaning of this word. In translation from the Greek language polygamy or polygamous means a large marriage. This implies that one person has many marriage partners. In some countries of the east and to this day polygamy is allowed. Therefore, in this case, it is more appropriate to talk about male polygamy, which implies the care, support and full content of each of his wife and all children.

The approach to women is different. It is believed that the girl by nature should strive for monogamy. Well, let's start to smash the existing stereotypes and fill all our "gaps" in knowledge.

"I have changed, because I am naturally polygamous"

So, the man covers his infidelity with the animal instincts left by his ancestors. Only here, unlike fauna, a man, in most cases, has sex for pleasure. The desire to go "left" is not due to the desire to continue your family. And the polygamousness of men is nothing to do with. Proceeding from the definition of this concept, comparing it with the behavior of a man, we see that no one is especially in a hurry to ring every "lady of the heart". Men sometimes and one family can not contain, let alone talk about a few. We must be more careful in our statements and attempts to justify ourselves.

Let's not forget that we are still reasonable people, endowed with conscience, conscience and morality. The desire to have many partners, the betrayal of a man speaks of his inability to remain faithful. There may be different reasons for this:

Multiple change of partners is due to the characteristics of the individual and the circumstances, but not by the nature of the male and female.

By the way, to the question of women. Returning to our concept, there is no sense in talking about the polygamousness of women. Few people who need a few husbands, here with one to cope.

A woman strive for monogamy. However, to the choice of a "male", a worthy father for her future children, she fits very responsibly. Before marriage, it can have a sufficient number of partners. But in marriage, as a rule, keeps loyalty and devotion to her husband.

Why do husbands change more often than their wives? Strangely enough, the reason is the ability to adapt. To any changes in the family, in a relationship with a spouse, a woman is easier to use than a man. The difficulty of adapting to new conditions pushes the latter to a simpler solution to this problem - to changing conditions and circumstances. That's why men start lovers, second families. Perhaps there they get what they lack at home.

Of course, this approach is wrong and leads to a dead end. Instead of "fleeing" you need to find the strength and establish a relationship with your wife, bring harmony back to your home.