Only in the 20th century, psychotherapists, psychoanalysts and psychologists went deep into the study of the entire spectrum of feelings between women and men. You do not have to go to fortune tellers, to learn more about love. Modern science is now able to tell a lot about, including the one that there are signs of love.
It is worth noting that there are six types of love. They are similar only externally, but the feelings that fill them differ from each other. So, by all accounts, such kinds of love as pragma, agape and store are attributed to love, and the lyudus and eros refer to something like the love of love, to mania, to love.
Signs of true love
Love has many characteristics and all of them are complex in their own way. They are divided into primary and secondary.
Signs of primary love are present in every person, even if at the moment he does not have a permanent partner. For example, this is manifested in the desire of a girl to always look incomparable, wear various ornaments, watch her make-up. In young people, the primary signs are more pronounced than in the female sex. So, the primary sign of love for men is the manifestation of sexual attraction. If, during a conversation with you, your interlocutor looks at the line of your cutout for a long time, then you know that he can be regarded as a potential groom.
It would not be superfluous to point out that these signs are weakly manifested in adult men, and in elderly women they manifest themselves in a passionate desire to bake pies for men they like.
The first signs of secondary love are more emotional. In girls, they manifest a rapid change of mood, there is no clear line between unrestrained merriment and hysteria and, strangely enough, a desire to follow the times, looking at the clock. In mature women, they manifest themselves in a readiness to monitor the purity of his things, in an effort to create culinary masterpieces.
In women, whose age is closer to thirty, the secondary signs of strong love are closer to sex. Women in love most often simultaneously change their appearance, hairstyle, skirt, jacket, perfume.
In boys, the secondary signs are manifested in some kind of stupidity, they can worship the object of their adoration, they abruptly fall into childhood and behave like little boys. Also these signs are expressed in the aggressiveness of the young man. It may seem to him that there are many obstacles to his happiness.
In adult men, these signs are manifested in the fact that, while visiting, they almost spread out, as if at home, on the couch. But it is not a secondary sign that he came to you with flowers for a meeting. Flowers are not any sign of love. However strange it may sound, the signs of true love do not include the chocolate given to you, etc. But if a man washes dishes at your house, you need to think about it.
Nonverbal signs of love
Important signs of the manifestation of love is the body language of a man in love.
- So, a man in love will always strive to be in the field of influence of a woman (at a distance of 1-1.5 m from her).
- How not surprising, but he will pretend that he is indifferent to the chosen one. From early childhood, this behavior is typical for men.
- For a man in love, touch is very important. At the initial stages of communication, he strives, allegedly accidentally, to hurt a woman, for example, passing a cup of tea.
- And for women it is characteristic to downcast their eyes, sometimes shooting them from under the eyelids.
- Like men, women are able to ignore their lover. Behave like this only a few women who have a male character.
- Enamored women do not look away from the desired man. When their views are met, embarrassed, it is possible that demonstratively, looks away.
Love is a rather complex feeling. Study your emotions, feelings, do not confuse love with love, do not let yourself be deceived by feelings.