Your boyfriend was taken into the army? And you do not know how to behave in a similar situation? It's not surprising, this situation is not standard, and it is normal that the girl is confused and does not know what to do if her boyfriend is in the army. We will try to help you understand your feelings and actions, and make the right decisions.
Probably the most common question that torments girls is the question: "How to wait for a guy from the army?". The answer is complex and simple at the same time: just wait and remember that soon his service will end and your beloved will return. It is not necessary to turn the expectation of a guy from the army to imprison himself in four walls. Continue to lead an ordinary life, go to the cinema, meet friends, walk. After all, if your boyfriend is in the army, then your life should not stop. You used to live somehow before meeting him, are not you? Just accept his absence as something necessary and wait until everything returns to its proper place.
Should I wait for a guy from the army?
It should start with the fact that if such a question was born in your head, then you, somewhere in the depths of your soul, admit such a scenario. It may be a lack of confidence in your feelings, that is, you doubt that you will want to continue to have a relationship with this guy after he returns. In this case, you can advise you for a while to forget that you have a boyfriend, and do as you want. During this time you will be able to understand yourself what you really need: to wait for a guy from the army or to look for a new one.
What to write a guy in the army?
Yes, anything. Starting from the latest events that happened in your city, and ending with a description of personal feelings. And it's not so important that you will write a guy in the army, how important it is how often you will do it. With the advent of mobile phones, everything has become much simpler. Letters can be replaced with calls and sms. You can safely send 1 sms-ke per day - it's not a lot. You can one message every two days. If you write and call less often - a guy may have doubts that you are still waiting for him. But also try not to forget about paper letters, write at least 2-3 letters a month - it's not tiring for you, and it will be nice for the guy.
What to bring a guy in the army?
The most correct decision will be to find out from the guy personally what he does not have. This can be as food, and household trivia. Of course, you do not need to carry perishable products (cakes, sausage, etc.). It is better to bring nuts, dried fruits (dried apricots, prunes, raisins), pies, gingerbread, candy. Ask if a shaving or hygienic accessory is necessary for a guy, in the army often there are interruptions with such items of use.
How to support a guy in the army?
To support a guy in the army can be charging him with optimism, and the certainty that he is loved and waiting at home. What to do for this? Do not forget to write a guy letters (as an option - sms-ki), take interest in his affairs, if possible - often come to him.
What to give a guy after the army?
This is probably the only case when it is better to give a trinket, but one that will remind you of it in a few years. But do not rush to buy statuettes and trinkets. Better think over such options as a guitar, a picture, a jar, chess, etc. That is, the gift should not just be stored on a shelf, but at least periodically used.