Sometimes it is very difficult for women to understand men, although their psychology is not as complicated as it seems. This does not mean that men are ordinary and uncomplicated! Simply they are much more specific and do not like to complicate everything, and in general they behave quite differently from women - this is the difficulty!
Let's get acquainted with the basic properties of male psychology, to learn to understand men and learn how to respond better to their behavior and actions.
Character and emotions
Men are characterized by assertiveness and sharpness, impatience and aggressiveness, will and the ability to resist. They are proud of their strength and determination and always strive to surpass others - because they are vain and very sensitive to victories and defeats. And although they do not show their emotions as freely and openly as women, they are equally susceptible to pessimism, resentment and irritation. Only their facial expressions remain restrained and only by indirect signs one can guess that the man is in a bad mood. That's why their psychology for women is difficult - how can she understand that a man is hurt or offended, if he does not show it? So just remember: everything that affects his self-esteem can upset him.
Self-esteem and pride
Reproaches and criticism, reminders of shortcomings and misses hurt very much the self-love of men. Therefore, after saying something unpleasant once - close the topic and do not return to it again. After all, the men themselves do this - having expressed themselves in a dispute or a conflict, they no longer remember it.
They are individualists - it is important for them to feel their independence and freedom. And they do not take away their self-esteem, and self-esteem is usually overestimated, but without it they can not be dispensed with as conquerors and pioneers.
But while they attach great importance to the opinions and assessments of others, they themselves are extremely inattentive to them. A woman has changed her hair, or put on new beads, recently cried or worries about something - it may not be visible to a man, and no matter how difficult it is to understand - this is male psychology!
How to learn to understand a man in conversation?
There is nothing easier - because a man always says what he thinks, and if he tries to deceive, it is usually immediately obvious. That's all the difficulty is often in the fact that most men are few in number. When everything is in order - they do not consider it necessary to discuss this. Well, if something happens that requires immediate action or action, men prefer to do business instead of talking. Therefore, it is so difficult for them in a situation of stress or severe shocks: they are also experiencing and feeling everything, but they are easier to solve problems than to talk about them. From this we can conclude that his silence is not indifference or indifference, he simply does not know what to say.
Male psychology and relationships: how to understand the feelings of men
Men love not like women. Their love may not imply flowers and beautiful confessions every day. They sincerely believe that the words spoken one day are enough. After all, men do not like to talk much. So watch not what the man says, but what he does.
A man who loves you will say that you are his woman. He will not hide your relationship and say - "This is my friend," or "My wife," or "My bride," or "My favorite."
And if it's important for you to hear what he thinks of you - ask directly, men do not like hints. Just do not rush to be satisfied with a banal set of phrases - kind, intelligent, beautiful ... Ask - why is it good, what's smart, what is the most beautiful in you? If your interlocutor can not answer - he meets with you for some of his goals and probably does not feel fervent feelings. A loving man can easily tell you how he treats you and what he values in you.