Africans consider kisses to be terribly unhygienic, and show their love, squeezing each other's thumb. Bali rubs her cheeks, dancing in Tahiti and touching with tongues, the Eskimos rub their noses. We show our love an ordinary, simple kiss. But you must agree, no matter how original, you would not for anything in the world exchange a real French kiss for friction with your nose. And in order to get the most from the most intimate contact for women, you need to know how to kiss a guy correctly.
What is a kiss?
A kiss is the first test for your compatibility, and perhaps the most accurate. If to you for some reason without obvious reasons, it is unpleasant to kiss a guy (annoying the taste of his saliva, touching his tongue), remember, most likely, you just do not fit each other. People feel their compatibility even on the smell of the body, which has not been felt for a long time because of the abundance of perfume.
Before you tell how to kiss correctly with a man, let's take a look at some interesting facts about kissing. Kissing is the first physical contact between a man and a woman, which occurs naturally when people "pull" to each other.
- The kiss of a person who knows how to kiss correctly, increases the pulse to a frequency of 100 beats / min or more.
- Lips are hundreds of times more sensitive than other skin areas.
- The usual "smack" burns 5 kcal, and the most passionate kiss - up to 30 kcal!
- A short male chin depresses a woman's desire to kiss.
- "Japanese" kiss - stand a step away from the partner, lean forward and pull out the lips with a tube. Touch, therefore, to each other without opening your mouth.
Lessons from kisses
In fact, as everyone knows and kisses correctly, even if he has never kissed. A man knows how to do it instinctively, by the way, like a chimpanzee - their kisses are almost identical to human ones.
So, you have imagined dozens of times how "this" is done. It's time to bring the moment of truth:
- if you are kissing for the first time (in general or with a specific guy), it is better to be alone and do it not in public, and that excitement plus constraint will bring all diligence to nothing;
- before embarking on a kiss, approach, create a spiritual and physical contact - this can be holding hands, hugs, kisses on the cheek;
- in order to feel the urge to kiss, it is necessary to know the person and sincerely love him (believe me, nothing good will come out of the kiss if you kiss without feeling);
- the kiss should begin with a light touch of the lips, smoothly turning into a touch and penetration of languages, and end, again, "dry" lips.
During the kiss, press your partner with your whole body, put your hands on his shoulders. So, the partner's hands will automatically be on your waist or hips. If desired, you can add movement with your hands - along the back, stroking your hair, or even you can grab your partner by the chin.
After the kiss, open your eyes (during the kiss they should be closed, men take offense at the open eyes), smile at your partner. This is very important especially when it comes to a shy man. Do not tear off his hands at once, "hang" on his neck for a few more seconds.
An enterprising woman
Most women prefer to leave the initiative behind the man. But due to some circumstances (either he hesitates because of the embarrassment, or you are uneasy due to initiative), girls are faced with the question of how to kiss the guy right first.
In order for a man to understand that you are hungry for a kiss, it's enough to face a straight look when you talk to him, slightly opening your lips and exposing your teeth. After that, if he did not catch the hint, you can rub off on his cheek, kiss her, and gently move to the lips. Next, do everything according to the classical pattern - lips, mouth, tongue. And there is nothing shameless in this initiative.