In our time, the existence of distance relations and even families is a reality in which many people live. And long enough. Is this possible a full-fledged relationship at a distance?
Scientific and technological progress has provided us with a very powerful help in order to be able to effectively maintain relations at a distance. This is a high-speed transport, and instant communication means, through which you can really communicate closely - until the joint family dinner with candles.
How far such a distance relationship is full, depends only on the people themselves, their needs in these relationships and the efforts they are willing to make.
And here it's not just about the family and about already formed, strong close relationships. A free girl who is in active search for her half, too, will not hurt to know how to build relationships at a distance. After all, this issue becomes more relevant every year, also because relations can not only continue at a distance due to the specifics of work or study, for example, but also to get involved in this way.
The origin of personal relationships at a distance
Only among my acquaintances is a large number of couples who met in social networks, forums or online dating sites. Perhaps, finding your soul mate in the global network is now easier than in a nightclub. And even if you happen to get acquainted somewhere in passing, knowing your account of your attention object in "Odnoklassniki" or "In contact" can be a much more attractive option than the good old telephone. After all, it's no secret that it is difficult for other people to make the first favorable impression, but it is impossible to resist their charm in communication!
In the same may be a minus of communication at a distance. Often the image of a person in a network is brighter and more attractive than he really is. In addition, when dealing with a person in absentia, we ourselves begin to attribute some traits to it, idealize it, and reality can disappoint with a mismatch with our expectations.
Well, suppose we finally found one without whom our existence is unthinkable. Now our morning begins with the sonorous signal of ICQ, and the evening passes behind Skype.
How to maintain relationships at a distance and save them?
Whether there is a prospect for your relationship at a distance, only time will show. After all, the support of any relationship is effort, and mutual, and even at a distance - even more so. The chances go uphill if the separation is temporary or in the foreseeable future you plan to reunite.
In principle, the psychology of relations at a distance is a good school of attentiveness, trust and respect for each other.
The main principle - never use ICQ or Skype to find out the relationship. For you it's just a means of communicating at a distance, sharing information about what you live, than breathe. Build joint plans, exchange all that has happened for the day, which is worthy of attention or just funny. Listen to what is being said to you, and watch closely the reaction to your words - when dealing at a distance, it's very easy to miss the moment when a person needs support and tenderness or has realized something is wrong. The main thing is that daily communication does not become formal and does not turn into a binding.
It is very important to maintain and sexual interest to each other, so that distance love does not turn into a simple friendship. Probably, it was for this purpose that they came up with web cameras!
Frequent trips to each other, of course, are not cheap, but they are also very important for relations at a distance. Beloved, who at least occasionally accompanies you to visit, will lead to people, and just warm your bed - the necessary minimum for each girl. Only meetings should not be spontaneous. Of course, surprises make our life brighter, but an inopportune work in the "same" day off can upset both of them for a long time!
And do not live from meeting to meeting! The more interesting life you lead, the more you will be interested in your lover. In addition, there will be less time for sad thoughts.
Of course, not every relationship will pass such a test. But who told you that something guarantees? Not all couples who have the opportunity to see each day and even live under one roof, turn into excellent families with long experience. Or does it somehow protect them from treason? Hardly.
Trust each other, believe that you will succeed, and take care of your love!