Beautiful, tall, with an athletic build and necessarily on a white horse (in the modern version on a white expensive foreign car). In the eyes of most girls this image has been an ideal for many years. But what to do small-sized, partly bald men on a domestic car? But such an overwhelming majority in this world! So, whatever one may say, the question of what real men should be like has long been rhetorical. But we will still try to answer it.
What should be the ideal man?
Before you start looking for a woman's ideal, let's figure out what our dear women really want from men. Recently, psychologists conducted a survey, the purpose of which was to determine whether the requirements of women meet the real qualities that most men possess. As a result of the research it turned out that only 16% of women perceive strong gender without illusions. The other ladies either have a lot of illusions, or are too demanding for their second half. Let us dispel all stereotypes about what a man should be like:
1 stereotype: the body is inflated. And you will prepare him food for the athletes, and in the gym he will spend more time than with you.
2 stereotype: handsome. Of course, a man should be a little more beautiful than a monkey. But having borrowed in the personal life of "Apollo" prepare for the crowds of fans and their round-the-clock calls and sms. In addition, as shown by the numerous practices, these men are very overestimated self-esteem. What will you be next to the written handsome man?
3 stereotype: a lover of children and animals. Begin to live together, and he will certainly lead a Doberman or St. Bernard. Well, if you are lucky, and you do not stumble upon such a fanatic of flora and fauna.
4 stereotype: stylish. The sense of taste of the guys should be present unambiguously. However, do not forget that fans of fashion are spinning in front of the mirror for 2 hours and at the moment when you are late for work, the bathtub will necessarily be occupied by your style.
A real man, where are you?
Thinking about what qualities a man should have, do not build illusions and expectations that will not come true. Most mistakes are made at a time when women, having in advance thought up their ideal, begin to compare it with a real man. And the time of disappointments begins. Yes, your man has a set of qualities that satisfy you. He shares your feelings and views on life. But ... As soon as it comes to a serious relationship, he begins to behave differently than you would like. Here, then, lies the illusion. The ideal man will behave the way you need, but the real one does not! In fact, the ideal man in nature simply does not exist.
But do not be in a hurry to get upset. The representatives of the stronger sex themselves also have an opinion about what qualities a man should have and what to strive for:
- Having a mind. Any man must know how to use his brains. Well, if the mind is added and erudition.
- Force. Naturally within reasonable limits to be able to stand up for themselves, and also protect their girl, the child, and provide them with security.
- Love for children. The ideal man should be a wonderful father. But as practice has shown, this quality wakes up in men not so fast,
as if the girls wanted. - Generosity. A man should not skimp on gifts for his wife and children. Of course, this is relevant in the case if the wife is a spoiled person who needs only gifts, or money that she will spend on trinkets.
And a real man should be determined, self-confident, gallant and well-mannered. But no one has the right to forbid this brutal male to remain an eternal child, to love cars and to dig in the garage, to spend time with friends, or to drink beer, sitting on the couch and watching football. These habits will always be in the life of men. And dear ladies can only give one valuable advice. Asking the question of what a real man should be, remember: a set of positive qualities does not yet make the entire personality of the man ideal. In the end, even if you ever manage to meet one on your life path, you will still run away from it without finding a reason to find fault and going crazy with boredom.