Every woman wants to receive gifts from her beloved, and more than once in the five-year plan, but simply because her man finds it necessary to please and indulge his lady. But so lucky not all, and some women are very afflicted by the lack of such attention from their faithful. So what if a man does not give gifts, and most importantly, why does this happen?
Some think that the answer to the question, why a husband or lover does not give gifts, can be his status. Like, the first has already received everything he wanted and now you can forget about gifts, but the second, on the contrary, to give gifts is simply obliged, because if the lover does not give gifts, then why is he asked for? If everything was so simple. It's not the status of a loved one, and not in his social position. The answer to the question of why he does not give gifts is hidden in the man's relation to money, holidays and to his woman.
- The guy does not give gifts, why? Do not think that the problem lies in the lack of money. After all, we do not ask for daily bounty of roses, but a small sign of attention from time to time, you can take out a small amount of money even from a meager budget. Yes, and we all remember the remarkable story of O. Henry "Gifts of the Magi," where the lovers sacrificed the last that they had, only to please their soul mate. So the justification "no money" is not taken seriously.
- Maybe if a man does not give gifts, he does not consider it necessary? Indeed, there are such men who simply do not understand why to give their favorite gifts, well, he does not have a romance. Such a man can be a loving, gentle and just ideal for you, if not for this little problem. So what's stopping you from telling him about it? To say that lovely surprises are very important for you, whether it be even chamomiles picked from the flower beds? The main thing to do this is not from the doorstep, and in no case do not make scandals or make claims to your man. But you do not have to do it with hints - a man, loaded with the problems of the working day, can not pay any attention to your hints. You just need to pick up the right moment, calmly tell your lover about what you lack in your relationship. And do not forget to tell him before that about his good qualities, or else he will take offense at your criticism. And you can also try to start giving presents yourself, a man will understand that it is pleasant or it will become uncomfortable for him that he comes to you empty-handed and begins to make you reciprocal surprises.
- And maybe he's just greedy? This option is quite possible, and sadly enough, it often occurs. What to do in this case? There are not so many options, either to part or to accept. Because to explain to the greedy that you gifts (not just for a birthday) are needed, like air, is almost impossible. Such men consider every ruble spent, because it was earned by them later and with blood. And spend money on such nonsense, as gifts for a beloved woman, for a greedy man is very difficult. They just do not fit in their heads, that hard-earned money can be spent on something unprofitable, something without which it's easy to do without. Therefore, talking heart to heart with the greed about the need for your peace of mind gifts, most likely, will lead to nothing.
- Why does not a man give gifts? Perhaps it just does not attach much importance to your relationships. Unfortunately, he does not care about you and your experiences.
Therefore, he does not try to please you, he just does not need it. What to do? No matter how it may sound, it is better to stop such a relationship. Why do you need a man who does not appreciate you at all? You can certainly try to fall in love with him, but you can not be forced by force. - If a man does not give gifts, maybe it's your fault? Remember how you met his every present? With a dissatisfied mine and criticism? Here is the result for you, it will be difficult to correct the situation now.
And most importantly, convincing your loved one that you need gifts, and starting to receive them, do not forget about the response - your man also needs signs of attention, even if he does not talk about it.