To date, sex after the wedding is perceived, more often than not, as a myth, or, as some rare phenomenon, than as a real event. Many of the principles of women leave the past, for which they retain chastity for their beloved and the only man for life. Also not relevant in the modern world is the behavior of a man who was prevalent in the Middle Ages when he was to marry after a single night of passion and love.
Instead of all of the above, there are a huge number of methods by which you can determine how partners are compatible in bed (temperament, horoscope, blood group and even dimensions). Sexual themes are increasingly gaining popularity as between friends, friends, at work, even among schoolchildren. Therefore, the concept of whether there is sex after the wedding, more and more takes the form of a joke or some kind of fiction.
However, there are people who have absolutely opposite views regarding the wedding night of the newlyweds, in comparison with the generally accepted. And adhere to the principle that only after the wedding they will have the first sex in their life. And there are many such people. Moreover, they also create communities, organizations of like-minded people (for example, the Catholic organization "Movement of pure hearts").
There are many advantages that sex has after the wedding. It should be noted that a woman who was not available to her man before the wedding, her husband takes her lover seriously. So, his intentions are really pure, if he has withstood such a test, which is not every man's power, but only to one who has considerable willpower. He will always treat his wife with respect, but a small chance that he will leave her.
The benefits of sex after marriage
So, let's consider intimate affinity of spouses from the positive side:
- Sex after the wedding is not only gentle, but also able to prolong the life of romance and candy-bouquet period.
- Sex after the wedding helps protect against stereotypes that a partner can abandon a woman after she takes possession of her. Especially this advantage will come to the liking of those women who dream of an engagement ring on a ring finger.
- The first intimate relationship of the newlyweds warms up their sexual interest.
- Sex after the wedding helps to strengthen the spirituality of your relationship, it brings partners together and is the guarantor that your relationship has good strength. In addition, there is the belief that if a man and a woman abstain from intimate relationships before marriage, it helps them to build clear plans for the future.
- Also, such sex is a kind of verification of the relationship to the truth, strength, sincerity of the feelings of the partners in relation to each other. Sex only after the wedding is a sign of respect for his partner.
Also, it will not be superfluous to evaluate sex before marriage, which will make it much clearer why sex after marriage has a huge impact on married life.
- Studies show that couples who have had sex before marriage break up more often than those who choose to remain chaste before marriage.
- Sex before the wedding - a certain mined path. After all, couples who have sex, tend to avoid the problem. Often, instead of looking straight into her face, they prefer to have sex.
- Premarital sex does not distinguish love from love. When it turns out that the basis of love is nothing but physical
pleasure, feelings of partners are weakened and they are kept only by sexual relations.
The list of benefits of sex after marriage and the disadvantages of premarital intimate relationships can be continued for a long time. And every girl has the right to decide whether she will retain chastity or, rejecting ancient teachings, give herself to her lover before she is connected with him by marriage. Everyone is responsible for his life, but important is the fact that decisions must be made consciously. And most importantly - do not waste time on empty links.