Nobody is immune from mistakes - everyone knows the truth. And, even if every second knows about it, then, facing face to face with troubles, not many people manage to turn a blind eye to their mistakes or people dear to their heart, as a result, a person as does not try, he can not maintain the previous harmonious relationship. Of course, there are actions that can not be forgiven. But forgiveness is an ambiguous concept and each person has his own views and beliefs on this score. Let's talk about this in more detail.
What can not be forgiven?
Perhaps someone is devoted to himself and will never forgive such actions that contradict his principles, let's say, the rules of his inner self . You can not easily take and list what you should never shut your eyes to, for example, telling your children: "Here's the list. Learn it and remember that you can not forgive betrayal, levity, etc. Agree that it does not sound very reasonable.
Psychologists say that when someone does not live up to our hopes or, unexpectedly for ourselves, acts in opposition, again, to our views, we feel the whole range of negative emotions: beginning with anger and ending with sadness. As a result of the fact that we realize that something definite can not be forgiven a person, we take offense at him, thereby taking away from ourselves a part of the positive energy. Yes, sometimes from
So, before you tell yourself that, for example, you can not forgive treason, try to understand the motive of the act of a person that is objectionable to you. Think about it: maybe, under the same circumstances, you would have done the same. What can not be exactly done, so it does not puzzle over "What you can not forgive a man?". Learn to easily feel the inner world, the thoughts of the one to whom you are angry. Strong personalities do not have on the soul of what is pulling them down. They know how to forgive.