Closedness and stiffness does not add to self-confidence in communicating with people. To be able to support the topic of conversation, to be an interesting interlocutor - not many can boast of this. Sociability as a person's quality is necessary to develop in oneself. This is quite possible, the main thing is to set this goal.
People are divided into two types: extroverts and introverts. The first type is open to people, communication. Introverts are those who are addressed to themselves. They are closed from the outside world. This must be taken into account and be more condescending to such an interlocutor.
Sociability and sociability are two slightly different concepts. We denote the following definitions:
- sociability is a person's need to communicate with other people;
- communicability is the ability of a person to easily establish and establish contacts in any team for a minimum period of time.
How to develop sociability?
It is easy to get carried away by talking with a person who can have something to say. Interesting, educated, literate people will never be left without attention. In any discussion, such a person is welcome. It is important for us to hear the opinion of another on this or that question, to find out someone's point of view. Hence the first exercise for the development of sociability:
- more to read, watch and listen to development programs, be "greedy" to new information.
- Communicative people are not afraid to get acquainted with new people. For them, this is of great interest. In order to increase your sociability, do the following:
- as soon as you find yourself in a crowded place (supermarket, amusement park, cinema, theater), do not miss the opportunity to come and talk to a stranger. The more you make such "cold" contacts, the more bold and confident you will be in communication. The theme can be the most simple: the weather, the choice of the movie, the impression after watching the performance, etc .;
- force yourself to "get excited" and show more interest in any conversation. Develop a habit of communicating, do not stand aside.
Very often we are deeply disappointed when, having met on the Internet with an interesting person in our opinion, in a real meeting, he suddenly becomes laconic. The fact is that virtual communication is given much easier than a real conversation. Such people do not have a high degree of contact. They either fear people, or are insecure in themselves, notorious, or all together in the "one bottle". Remember that only live communication will bring you the desired result in solving your problem.