The marks of attention shown to the interlocutor are those features of the partner's behavior with which he involuntarily or consciously shows attention and interest. In men and women, they can be different. Women, flirting, show non-verbal signs of attention: they often clap eyelashes, touch their hair, can lick their lips, exhibit the tempting twists of their bodies. Also very often, girls spin an object in their hands. In addition, the woman turns to the man with the whole body, as if demonstrating that she is open to courtship and is ready for them.
Signs of attention in communication can be manifested in business communication between two partners, not necessarily men and women. The first feature will be support and compliments, a sincere interest in the success or failure of the interlocutor. Not the last place is taken and praise. Such signs of attention indicate mutual sympathy and readiness to support.
Signs of attention of men
Male marks of attention are significantly different from those signs that women display. Let's look at how a man gives signs of attention. First of all, he tries to show with all his might that the interlocutor is dealing with a real male male! Non-verbal signs of attention of men consist in the following manifestations:
- the interlocutor looks directly in the eyes, trying to "disarm" the interlocutor;
- imitates the interlocutor, repeating her gestures and facial expressions (the effect of the "mirror");
- tries to touch the interlocutor;
- demonstratively corrects his clothes, puts in order the appearance.
Verbal signs of attention can manifest themselves in the fact that a man speaks a lot, constantly makes numerous compliments, often repeats the name of the interlocutor, is interested in successes and achievements, praises and extols, speaks to topics of interest to women.
Why do men stop showing signs of attention?
So, the man has managed to win your favor, and for some time now you are considered a pair. Your communication is pleasant and exciting, but ... your man has stopped giving signs of attention. This is very simple. By their nature, all men are conquerors, so the guys' attention marks are limited to the period of courtship. When a man achieves what he wants, he relaxes considerably. In this there is nothing reprehensible, this is quite a natural phenomenon.
If you want to continue receiving attention signs from men, want him to give flowers, compliments, and just paid your attention and showed interest, it is worth following several rules of communication.
- Praise him for any sign of attention. Did he give you flowers? Show sincere gratitude and admiration, show him that he is the best, and never mention why he was so wasted or something like that.
- Do not hint. Men do not understand the hints, they
a specific guide to action is needed. Do not say "I do not have enough of your attention", ask him for something specific, for example, "let's go to the cinema / restaurant / for a walk", "give me tulips, because spring is on the street", etc. etc. - Match! Do you want compliments - meet this, look so that you had something to do for a compliment. Do not appear before your man in a slovenly manner, unwashed or disheveled. Believe me, even if he does not notice your new hairstyle, he will definitely notice your transformation and shine in his eyes.
Having studied the signs of attention, and following certain rules, you will easily achieve that your man will provide signs of attention and compliments to you all the time!