The crazy rhythm in which modern women live, stress and the desire to do everything in time, can lead to zero all our desires. Many representatives of the fair sex in pursuit of material goods and careers do not think that this race is infinite and the further it is, the more difficult it is to get off it. Of course, these factors also affect the sexual life of a woman.
According to studies conducted by British experts, 15% of women suffer from the fact that they do not want sex. At first, they do not pay attention to this, but sooner or later the problem starts to speak for itself. If a woman does not have the desire to have sex, she does not enjoy the process. And sexual dissatisfaction affects our body far from the best way.
Women who fall into such a situation, begin to ask themselves the question "Why do not I want sex?". In this case, it is important to identify the true reason why you do not want sex, and try to eliminate it. Consider the most common situations.
- "I do not want my husband - what should I do?". A similar situation can arise even in a strong family alliance. When relations between spouses remain respectful and trusting, and you do not want to engage in sex, you need to decide urgently what to do. Sexual life can change dramatically when love is left in the past and the spouses are strongly accustomed to each other. Often, the woman wants again bright experiences and worries, such as those that she experienced at the dawn of relations with her husband. But nature is arranged in such a way that love does not remain forever - these feelings pass with time and the relationship goes to a new stage of development. In this case, the lack of desire for sex is most often caused by a psychological factor. Return to sexual relations, the former brightness can only complete rethinking and acceptance of a new order of things by a woman. Specialists recommend to resume romantic dates, presents and surprises to each other, each week to allocate a day, which the couple dedicate to each other. Also, joint trips are very useful.
- "I do not want sex with my husband after childbirth - what should I do?". Childbirth is an important and often crucial stage in the life of every woman. The birth of a child can greatly change a young mother. Very often, these changes affect the sexual life between young parents. The hormonal background of a woman is unstable, so if after the birth the desire for sex disappeared or, conversely, there is a constant desire for sex - this is normal. Another thing, if after the birth does not want sex for a long period of time -
from 6 months. In this case, you should think about a complete rest and sleep. Often it is fatigue that causes apathy. - "I do not want sex - a complete rejection of the sexual act." For sexual desire in the body of a woman meets the hormone testosterone, which is produced in the ovaries. The more intensive the production of testosterone, the more a strong desire to have sex occurs in women. The production of testosterone in women, as in men, decreases with age. Also, oral contraceptives have a negative effect on hormone production in women. According to a recent study, it is established that their long-term administration promotes the production of a substance in the blood that completely neutralizes testosterone. And if at the physiological level of sexual desire is not manifested, then how to understand that you want sex? Therefore, if the desire to have sex is lost, you should immediately stop taking birth control pills.
Every woman should understand themselves and identify a problem that leads to a lack of desire for sex. If you can not correct the situation yourself, you should contact a specialist.