It is unlikely that anyone will argue that sex is an important part of our lives, long abstinence and health negatively affects, and we are not happier. But is not this too much attention paid to this aspect? After all, we literally impose a stereotype that happiness is possible only if there is a violent sexual life, and if everything is fairly calm, then it's somehow abnormal.
Liberation in sex or promiscuity?
Speaking of emancipation of any kind, we mean unconstrained behavior in various situations, which makes communication more enjoyable. But if it comes to sexual emancipation, then there are disagreements: someone thinks this is the highest manifestation of femininity, someone calls such behavior unacceptable. Of course, one can say - how many people, so many opinions, but a significant role in this regard is played by the confusion of concepts, many simply confuse emancipation and debauchery.
The fact that many people so scathingly condemn - indiscriminate in the choice of sexual partners, is called sexual promiscuity and has nothing to do with the topic of our conversation. Yes, emancipation has earned us the right, on an equal footing with men, to seek satisfaction in sex, independently choose partners and enjoy this side of life in full. But the frequent change of sexual partners not only condemns the society, it also causes health problems. Some scientists (Auckland, New Zealand) even consider this behavior pathology, since it has no evolutionary reasons. In addition, studies have shown that depression is more susceptible to women for whom sexual promiscuity is the norm.
Emancipation in sex does not mean sexual indiscrimination, it rather involves relaxed relationships, lack of intimate fears and openness to new sensations. The liberated woman chooses a man for herself, and does not rush to the first person she meets. This does not mean that in all life there should be only one man, just an overabundance of partners rather indicates the presence of complexes than about sexual emancipation. Since most often for promiscuity is hidden fear and self-doubt, a self-sufficient woman simply does not need to prove to herself and others her own sexuality.
How is sexual emancipation manifested?
Female boldness and independence manifests itself in appearance, and in gait, and in the manner of communication. But most clearly these features are manifested in private with a partner, and where else to demonstrate sexual emancipation, how not with a man in bed?
But everything flows, everything changes, and if earlier oral sex was considered something forbidden, now almost every woman has it in her arsenal. So for an emancipated woman (or who wants to be one) it is important not so much to own popular sex devices, but not be afraid to try new ones. After all, the meaning of emancipation is not to conform to fashionable behavior, but to receive from sex the maximum pleasure itself and be able to satisfy a partner. That's why men in one voice
So, emancipation in bed is the right way to improve your intimate life, why does not everyone decide to behave in this way? There are several reasons for this, it may be the first unsuccessful experience of relations, and a bad atmosphere in the family or Puritan upbringing. But often the partner is not able to become a liberated woman, she does not feel safe with him, and therefore can not relax. So it's not always in the lack of relaxedness that it's worth blaming yourself, maybe next to you is just not that man?