Fear of sex

Sex helps people to get closer, have fun and deliver it to their partner. Even more important intimacy is in seminal life. After all, it's not a secret for anyone that life after the wedding is far from the fairy tale we have been accustomed to seeing in cartoons since childhood. It is important to maintain the passion and understanding between the spouses that without sexual contact it is very difficult to do. Why there is fear of sex (sexophobia) - the topic of our discussion today.

"I do not want and I will not"

Fear of the first sex is due to the unknown. Theoretical aspects can not replace practical experience. The first from the latter can be radically different. You can know about sex all, but when it comes directly to sexual intercourse, a woman (in most cases) can be overcome by fear. The reasons may be the following:

• Unwillingness to intimacy in the moral plane. The girl, perhaps, hurried with the decision. When the affair began to approach the sex, she suddenly realized that she was still "not ready." In this case, it is worthwhile to wait a little longer;
• diffidence. Complexes, low self-esteem, discontent with oneself - all this prevents you from being liberated and completely surrendered to the "process";
• doubts about the first partner. It seems to be ready, but the man is in doubt. Mistrust of a partner is one of the most significant obstacles. If you doubt, then why all this? Will not it be reasonable to find someone who really will be worthy to be the first?

The experience of the first intimate relationship plays an important role in the subsequent sexual life of a woman. Such a phobia as a fear of sex can arise after the unsuccessful experience of the first sex, and in the future will bring problems in your personal life.

Fear of sex can be fixed in the postpartum period in women. Pregnancy, childbirth and childbirth - the strongest stress for the body and psyche. In case the birth was difficult, the woman is afraid for some time not only to give birth again, but also to be given to love joys. She may be uncomfortable at the thought of having sex alone. This all, of course, over time passes. Only time is needed - everything will be as before.

And one more important reason, because of which there is a fear of having sex, is a transferred disease, sexually transmitted. Unpleasant consequences, long and heavy recovery of health could lead to sexophobia. Love and faith in your partner will help you get rid of it.