Sexuality decreases with age. This happens for many reasons, both objective and subjective. Why do not you want sex like a healthy young man: a man or a woman?
- It often happens that a woman does not want sex. Why? She loves her husband. For example, she is angry with him. Anger pushes out all feelings from the heart, resentment makes it impossible for intimacy. In this case, we have to make up. Explain your condition. He is not a stranger, he will understand!
- It seems to the woman that she looks bad. She does not dare to give vent to feelings until she makes a new hairstyle and does not lose weight by two kilos. There's only one thing to do: throw the nonsense out of your head. He loves you and wants what he is. And to inspire him with thoughts of two extra pounds and not at all.
- Excess cholesterol in the blood can cause a decrease in libido, this is irrefutably proved by recent studies. Alas, farewell, puff pastries and hot dogs, will have to change food preferences and at least get rid of sausages, sausages and bacon. Part of the animal food replaced by plant.
- Contraceptives reduce libido, this has already been proven. What to do? Change the drug, after consulting a doctor.
- A common reason why a woman does not want sex is dysfunction of the thyroid gland. There is a reason to check whether everything is fine with her.
- The answer to the question why I do not want sex with my husband, maybe the withdrawal from their lives of spiritual intimacy, there was a "ferocity" of feelings: only sex. A person is not an animal, he can not live like this for so long. It is necessary to return emotional relations: to talk heart to heart, to go together in a cafe, in a movie, in a theater. What did it connect with before? This must be revived.
Why do not you want sex after giving birth?
It's kind of like, it's clear. The body has suffered stress - this time. He needs time to recover. All the need for tenderness, love, touch pulls on the baby. He is now the main creature in the universe. And the husband often does not share this feeling, is irritated, in turn, becoming an irritant for the wife. It's two. Thirdly, childbirth is often traumatic, which causes physical pain during sexual intercourse or simply fear of the possibility of pain, which also does not promote sexual attraction. Fourthly, in the body of a woman there is a hormonal reconstruction. Fifth, my mother even a quiet child is very tired, what can I say, if the baby is a screamer!
What can you do here? The husband and wife jointly decided to give birth to the baby. The woman had to suffer a lot because of this: to carry a few extra pounds, suffer from toxicosis and exhausting "pregnant" fears, give birth in pain. Even if the birth is anesthetized, it's still, especially the first time, very scary. Now it's time for my dad to wait a little. It is necessary to understand the wife, and not to make her endless claims at the level of the kindergarten: you love him more than me! If a woman sees that her husband sympathizes with her, she tries to help, she will reach out to him and remember how they loved to please each other. And the hysterical exactingness of the owner is only capable of doing harm.
It also happens that a representative of the strong half of humanity suffers from the absence of libido.
Why does a man not want sex?
Some of the above reasons also work here, for example, cholesterol and medications. Of course, a man does not take contraceptives, but a throat pills can be a very unfortunate choice. You need to consult a doctor.
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We must learn to leave at least part of the problems behind the threshold of the office. Then, you see, he will also be drawn to his wife, and life will not seem so terrible.