Probably, many women dreamed of a brutal man, considering this type of man sexual. But today, modern society represents a new ideal of the stronger sex - sapiosexual.
Who is it?
The word comes from the Latin sapio, that is, intelligent and judicious. The meaning of this movement - the intellect can also be sexual. It was thought up to be members of the Sacher-Masoch family. For such people, the best excitement is considered to be intellectual communication. But what about the popular expression: "Behind him, like a stone wall," is this really not relevant today?
What is common between sex and the mind?
From time immemorial people when meeting and communicating paid attention to the intellectual development of man, but they were not considered sapioexuals. Because there is a huge difference between the fact that you just like smart people and get excited from them. Therefore, if you like to communicate with intelligent people, but do not experience any signs of sexual arousal, you do not need to rank yourself as a sapiosexual. But if some newfangled word like "deprivation" causes a shiver on your back, we congratulate you one of them.
How did they come about?
When and how did it happen that the intellectuals came to replace the handsome and well-charged guys? On this occasion, there are several points of view:
- Evolution. Times when men hunted and extracted food for their family, have passed, now for this they come up with various traps, thus freeing up a lot of free time. Long ago, women chose alpha males, because they stood out among other applicants for their heart. In today's world, one power to ensure a happy life is completely lacking. Yes, and women have changed, have become smarter and more demanding of themselves and others. Most likely, it is because of this that the priorities shifted towards smart men.
- Freud's opinion. The appearance of sapiosexuals is a consequence of bad childhood, that is, the girl's father was not too smart and he did not pay attention to his daughter, now, when she grew up, she is trying to find a man who will be the opposite of this image. For her, the ideal is a representative of the stronger sex who will be able to win over the location of intellectual conversation.
- Opinion of psychologists. This theory holds the position that everything in the world is cyclical, that's why spirituality and intellect came to replace debauchery and sexual revolution. People who consider themselves sapioeksualalami, unite in groups and quietly despise all illiterate and uneducated. Because of this, they become arrogant, and it's almost impossible to get into their caste.
Relationship in a pair
Sapioexuals are people of a new generation who do not pay attention to gender, age, appearance, etc., for them, true sexual pleasure is a good book and a smart partner. When a pair of men and women are real intellectuals, it is not worth waiting for ideal relations, since they can not quarrel about unwashed dishes, but different opinions about the book read can lead to a real scandal. Also, such couples may have problems with sex, as they may diverge in
Conclusion
Each person is individual and what exactly attracts him in the opposite field - the brain or muscles to solve it. And the fact that the intellect makes a man sexy, was understandable long before the formation of this movement. Therefore, you can consider yourself with sapioeksualam, but at the same time lose a decent man who simply, for example, does not like to read Russian classics, so listen first of all to your heart, not your mind.