For many, divorce is associated with a state of despair, depression. Many women are afraid of him so much that until the last suffer their spouse, trying to preserve a once happy family. But if something happened that the keeper of the hearth is afraid of, the question arises whether there is any life after the divorce.
According to the statistical survey, in most cases the initiator of the divorce is the woman. The main reasons are: sexual dissatisfaction, early marriage , husband's drunkenness, marriage of convenience, incompatibility of characters, practical and psychological unpreparedness for family obligations, conjugal "tyranny".
Life after a divorce from her husband
Whatever the family life, it still constitutes an experience for the life of both men and women. After such a sharp turn in the lives of former spouses, priorities, values, principles change. To return the former feeling of happiness is possible at once to the few. And in this regard, it is more difficult for women to improve their lives. After all, their psychology is arranged in such a way that they perceive the world, first of all, through the prism of feelings.
A woman's life after a divorce can change in one of two ways: either live the rest of the days alone, or again go through the path of building love, family relationships, but with another man.
Most women, regardless of whether they have a child in their arms or no children, prefer the first option. In this case, they get freedom, a clean house, filled with comfort, silence - that is all that they so much wanted.
Sociological data show that the woman's new life after the divorce in the first year is filled with a sense of liberation, euphoria. They have noticeable improvements in their health. A psychological and mental balance is being established. The explanation for this is one: after getting rid of the oppressive daily duties of the average wife (constant cleaning, ironing, washing, etc.), the woman begins to devote more time to her beloved, renewing relationships with friends, improving in the spiritual plan. Women want to please men. And the priority in life after a divorce is the care of your appearance.
Life after a divorce with a child
It also happens that family happiness does not last long, even if the spouses have their little child, the fruit of their love. If after the divorce you stayed with the baby in your arms, do not despair. At first, it may be necessary to depend on your parents in many ways. Over time, you can start living a full life again. The main thing is love yourself and your baby. Do not concentrate on finding a new spouse. Improve your life, your inner world. If you really love another man, then your child, he will accept with joy, as his.
How to start life after a divorce?
- More often remind yourself that divorce is nothing but a new life stage. In order not to fall into depression, find the pros in your situation. Do not doubt that you have a lot of positive from the fact that you are divorced. If it is more effective, write down on the sheet of paper all the positive aspects of the current life stage.
- Believe in yourself, in your future. Remember that your thoughts and beliefs shape your life. Pay attention to your actions. Stop being sorry and crying.
- Take care of your favorite things.
- A good change helps the situation. Embark on a journey. Close acquaintances with new people. And this means that there will be new impressions. Travel does not necessarily have to fly you into a penny. A trip to the suburbs is also perfect. The main thing is to go to a place where you were not previously, and especially - where you did not rest with your ex-spouse.
Become a woman who lives in pleasure and joy. After all, it is to such people that others are drawn. It is with such women that men want to meet. Love yourself and respect!