It was an ordinary day, not different from the rest of everyday life. The flow of people, the noise of conversations, cars and ... in the midst of this fuss came HE. Like a bolt from the blue. With such a smile, gait, manners ... Only a fraction of a second was enough to understand - the heart is already occupied only by them. And at this point it does not matter whether you are familiar or not, how much older and with whom he communicates. One thing is clear - you really like this guy. What to do in this case? Of course, to understand this difficult situation and find solutions to what we are now going to do.
How to attract a guy who likes it?
The main difficulty of any girl in love is to gather your thoughts, while the soul is overwhelmed with emotions. Of course, I want to immediately rush to my lover's neck, scorch it with a look or write him a love letter. However, as practice shows, this is not the best solution. The trick, which almost all women have, can become a real weapon in the way of conquering the object of adoration.
Situations that really like the guy are different. He can be a colleague at work, study with you, and sometimes you do not even know each other. Acting is necessary in accordance with the circumstances in which you allowed your heart to open up to this person. So, how to achieve the guy you like:
- first you need to like yourself. While you yourself do not recognize their merits and do not emphasize them, it is unlikely that someone from the surrounding will be able to discern them. A lot of celebrities have flaws in appearance, but at the same time they remain favorites. Learn to respect yourself and maintain your dignity in any situation;
- meet, as is known by dress. Your appearance can scare away any potential chevalier if you are sloppy dressed and combed, not to mention the smell from the mouth and the absence of makeup. Choose clothes in accordance with their own way. You can be a romantic person, such a hooligan or a business lady. Consider that different men like different types of characters and temperaments;
- Be sociable and smile. Frowned and silent people, few people like. Especially do not be rude to the man you liked to hide your true feelings. An open friendly smile and a desire to support any conversation will make you a charming and attractive companion.
Step by step
However, such work on themselves is not enough. Many girls complain: "I like the guy, but I'm afraid!". What are you afraid of, actually? You will not be shot for your feelings. And even if you do not reciprocate, there is little loss. In any case, it is important to take the first step. Let it be thought out a thousand times and will require of you courage. But this is better than silently adoring a man and injuring himself even more with his own indecisiveness. So, if you decide to act, the following tips will help you:
- What if I like an unfamiliar guy? To begin with, it is important to understand whether you have common acquaintances with him, and in what kind of relationships you have with these friends. Try to learn as much as possible about this person: what he does, what are his interests, and of course he meets with someone. If his heart is not busy yet, you can act. The most successful for dating will be two options - to ask common friends to introduce you under any pretext. It would be advisable for you to study his interests, so that you have something to interest him and what to talk about with him. The second option is to help your friends and girlfriends. You need to adjust the situation in which you are "accidentally" pushed on him, or you shed juice on him, and maybe you lost something and ask for his help to find. There are many options. The main thing is to think through every step and never admit that it was rigged.
- Some girls in confusion write: "What if I like two guys?". Indeed, the situation is not simple. And here it is important to decide which features of both guys you hooked. Personality of people is fully revealed only when close communication. You need to get to know each of them better and still make a choice in favor of one person. If you can not be determined after a long time, it is better to give up both than to suffer from a choice whose success you can not foresee in advance.
- There are situations when a lover needs to present a present. What to give to the guy you like? Considering that this person is dear to you, a gift, certainly, should bring him joy and be pleasant. But do not choose something expensive. Let your present be friendly and in the interests of the young man. Your goal is to receive gratitude and positive emotions with your gift.
Whatever your situation, just tell the guy that he likes - not the best idea. Your cunning and savvy will help you to make sure that the guy himself wants to achieve you. To do this, you need to be charming, attractive externally, self-confident, benevolent and of course to share at least some of the interests of your chosen one. It does not matter if you have any external flaws. The main thing is to love yourself, and then people will love. The main thing is not to be afraid of anything. And the signs that you like a guy,