The first day in kindergarten is very important for both children and parents and for educators, to whom you trusted your child. If, while giving the child to the garden, you feel insecure and exciting, your experiences will undoubtedly reflect on your child's mood. How can I regain a sense of confidence on this day? - Get ready for this moment in advance.
How to prepare a child for kindergarten, we will discuss in this article. Use these ideas and make your first day in kindergarten truly happy.
Adaptation period in kindergarten
Adaptation in kindergarten does not go smoothly for all children. When the child returns from the garden with a bad mood, does not want to dress in the mornings to go to classes, many parents start to doubt the qualifications of pre-school teachers working in the kindergarten. However, in reality, the mood of the child is much more dependent on the feelings with which parents take him to the kindergarten, what he hears at home regarding the period of stay in the kindergarten. The child takes over the attitude to the kindergarten primarily from the parents, therefore - change your attitude to the preschool institution, and the child will follow your example.
How to facilitate the task?
How to prepare a child for the manger? How to prepare it for kindergarten? - To adapt in the kindergarten was not difficult, follow these recommendations in the following sequence:
- Make sure to take the child to a preschool. Perhaps you still have time to stay with the child at home and personally educate him. Not convinced of the need to delegate responsibility to another caregiver, you will suffer from a complex of guilt, and this will not do for the benefit of the child himself.
- Make sure that the kindergarten in which you give your child is best in accordance with the means that you are willing to spend on the upbringing and training of the baby. Remember that the first years of training and development pay off a hundredfold in adulthood, because the more qualified, attentive and experienced the teachers are, the better for your baby.
- Do everything possible to establish good relations with the kindergarten staff. Small gifts "in honor of dating", "March 8", etc. will be pleasant to the most difficult from a psychological point of view.
- Make sure that the child has already mastered the first skills of independence: he can ask for a pot, hold a spoon, dress. However, this rule is not at all unconditional. Since it is easier for many children to learn everything listed in the team, and no kindergarten can refuse to admit a child who does not possess these skills.
- Never frighten the child with threats: "If you behave badly, I'll give it to the kindergarten." In this case, you risk developing a negative attitude towards this institution on the part of the child. On the contrary, lead him there as a holiday. And when the child spoils, from time to time you can "threaten": "If you behave badly, I will not take you to the kindergarten, you'll stay at home".
- Do so that the first day in the kindergarten remembered to the child something particularly enjoyable. Present him with the desired toy after the first day spent in the kindergarten, prepare his favorite dessert (however, make sure that it is also useful, otherwise, the next day after eating a cake with cream the child can go not to the garden, but in infectious diseases hospital).
- If the child has started to visit the garden quietly, but for some time his attitude has changed, do not give in to
the child's demands to leave him at home, since by making the first assignment, you will show the child that the requirement to visit the garden is not compulsory, from time to time it can be violated. It will be better if, having overcome the morning moods, you will still take the baby to the group, but in the evening you will please the child with something personally pleasant to him and promise that if there are no moods next morning, you will come up with something interesting for him. - Do not forget to spend more time with the child in the evenings. Each kid needs at least one hour during the day, the adult paid personally to him, to his interests, his problems, his games. Adhere to this rule and then your family life will be conflict-free and prosperous.