Sometimes, after making a decision to part with a loved one, you continue to communicate with him, meet and even occasionally have sex. It suits many, and they call it free relations, while others want to stop talking to the ex-man once or for all, or on the contrary, to remain friends with him. So that you can understand it or not, you need to consider each option.
What to do after parting?
That you had the opportunity to think about everything and draw some conclusions, then immediately after the break in relations, exclude any communication with the former lover. After a break, you will understand whether you need to communicate with an ex-man or best to say goodbye to him once and for all. If you broke up without scandal and hatred, and just at some point you realized that you are not on the road, then you do not need any meetings, conversations and the like. If you do not put a point in the past, then a new relationship can not appear in your life.
Is friendship possible?
Sometimes the relationship ends so that the partners remain friends, but is there any sense of such friendship and how long will such relations last. Basically, in such friendly relations one person is friendly, and the other continues to love and for him this is the only chance, how not to lose contact with a loved one. In this case, most likely, no relationship will not work, neither romantic nor friendly. Especially with the appearance of a new passion in one of the former lovers, jealousy appears in the relationship, and then it will definitely have to choose either love or friendship with the former lover. In general, sooner or later such friendship will come to an end.
Between you there is much in common
Sometimes, other than love relationships, you are bound to other areas of life, it can be, for example, work or a common business. It is important to calmly agree and sit down at the "negotiating table", so as not to lose what has been going on for a long time. If you do not have any complaints, then everything will turn out, and to exist with each other will be more or less comfortable, and the main thing is to keep the common cause. If you are united by a child, then you will have to force yourself to communicate with an ex-spouse for the normal life of your child. After all, the child deserves that he had both mom and dad who love him.
Free Relationships
Sometimes there are couples who split up, but from time to time they meet to have sex. This is a twofold situation. Plus, that the former man knows your habits and desires well and can give pleasure, but the minus of such relations is much more significant. Sex with the ex will not give you the opportunity to start another relationship and find a new love. According to statistics, the passion between former lovers can arise 4 months after the break. Often such relationships bring only new experiences and scandals. After a stormy night with a former lover, memories of quarrels and scandals will float out again, and you will feel terrible.
But there are exceptions, once again meeting, partners, understand that they made a huge mistake,
What in the end?
It is necessary to stop and understand what you want to receive from life and from relationships with the former. If you really still love him, then talk to him seriously otherwise the meetings from time to time will bring even more pain and suffering. It is best to suffer, get sick and put a fat point in this story. Only in this way you can come to, rest and calm down. Thanks to this, you will be ready to meet new love, new emotions and a new happy relationship with another man.