Women have fought for their rights for many centuries. For the sake of justice, we note that they did receive them. But along with the rights, they also received many other additional opportunities. Now, from women and girls, the initiative in any household and not only issues began to come more often. Also, no one will be surprised by the situation when a fair sex representative will propose a guy to be a couple. But in this case the girl has a lot of questions, she does not know how to offer the guy to meet. The fact that the male population still does it more often, they have much more rich experience in this area. In extreme cases, their father will always help them with advice. And what should a girl do? To whom she turn? Mom in a similar situation is unlikely to help, since during her youth such precedents were very, very few. That tormented the girl thinking how to beautifully and unobtrusively invite a guy to meet, or how to do so that he himself offered it to her. We will try to help solve this problem.
How can you offer a guy to meet?
If you have a warm feeling for a young man, but you do not know how to make the first steps towards him, then you can follow our algorithm.
To start, the girl needs to find out why the guy does not invite her to meet. The reasons can be several, as appropriate, and several options for the further development of events.
The first reason is that the guy is busy with another girl. In that case, you, of course, can try to repel it, but how successful can be your venture, knows, perhaps, only the guy himself.
The second reason is that you are not interested in him. Well, no one said that it would be easy and certainly not guaranteed that your feelings are mutual. But in this situation, not all is lost. Today you are indifferent to him, and tomorrow he may well be interested in you. And your task is to make sure that he knows as much as possible about your positive qualities.
And the third reason is his shyness. In this case, it will be easier for you to act, because the guy actually wants to meet with you, but does not dare to show initiative. Therefore, everything is in your hands, invite him to meet himself, but at the same time do not be very assertive, risk the guy to frighten off.
Now we will offer several ways how you can offer a guy to meet.
- You can ask him for help, and thus lure in a "trap". For example, ask him to help you deal with some complicated device, or clean your computer of viruses, or something like that. And you meet him at home fully armed, offer to drink tea with your own baked cookies, be sure to tell how invaluable it is for you to help him, that contact him again, and as a sign
thank you want to invite him to a cafe (park, circus, etc.). In general, the house act on the situation. - If you have a friendly relationship with a guy, then you can use someone from your mutual friends as a matchmaker. Let your friend or girlfriend hint to a young man that he likes you, that you would not mind spending time with him, but you're embarrassed to approach yourself. Thus, you can, as it were, unobtrusively get the guy to offer to meet.
- If you do not have such friends who could fulfill a responsible mission, then electronic and paper letters will come to your aid. And if your nose is Valentine's Day, then this event will greatly facilitate your recognition. You buy a valentine, or you make it yourself, sign it and send it. If a guy has a reciprocal feeling for you, then he will understand your hint right away. But be careful, it is likely that on such a day you will not be the one to encroach on the free heart of your prince.