Sometimes you have to think about how you can call your favorite guy, because you want to call him gently and affectionately, and so that he was pleased. In fact, do not be like the heroes of American melodramas, which are addressed to each other only as "dear, dear", as if the words of others do not know. And I do not want other platitudes, like "rabbit" and "cat". So what to do, how can you call a loved one, so that the guy liked it?
"Call me quietly by name ..."
Psychologists who give lessons in correct communication argue that there is nothing more pleasant for a person than the sound of his own name. So why should your loved one be an exception? After all, you can call so many affectionate variations on behalf of the guy, it will be cute and not so cloying, as, for example, "sweet puddings". And some, especially pragmatic individuals will not react at all to your attempts to compare them with representatives of the animal world and other nicknames, they generally do not recognize any other appeals except their own name. Such a guy on the appeal "kotya", most likely, or grimace disgruntled croak or even ask: "Have you forgotten my name?" - not the most coveted reaction is true? So if your guy belongs to this category of people, then you have to tighten your fantasy and call your beloved, as he likes, namely, gentle derivatives on his behalf.
Call me "fluff"!
Do not know what words you can gently call a guy, believing that by name everyone can contact him, but you want something more personal? And who said that it is impossible to find out from the very object of tender feelings? Let him reveal the secret, what gentle nicknames he will be most pleased to hear from your lips. The main thing is to find out this is not a question from the threshold, "on the forehead," but correctly, after waiting for a suitable situation. And then the guy might react inadequately if you flaunt him with the question "Well, how should I call you?" Instead of the usual kiss and the word "Hello!".
Well, what if you got the courage to find out from your lover what he likes, or did not turn up the right moment? Then try to follow the principle of "treat others as you want them to treat you." Try fantasizing about the affectionate naming yourself a favorite, which treatment would be most pleasant for you. Determined? Well, now it remains only to change the ending correctly, and see what happened. If you like the result, put the experience on your favorite, calling it so looking at the reaction. He liked this? Then there are no problems. And if the guy is not enthusiastic, apologize and continue to experiment. In the end, there must be a word that suits both of them, well, or the loved one will not survive such erosion over himself and he himself will say what kind words he likes most. The main thing, going into the world of dreams, not to invent words that can be regarded as rudeness or ridicule - it does not like anyone.
It's banal, but, how nice
Some girls, carried away by reflections on the question of how beautiful it is to call a guy, forget about him or come up with completely unimaginable nicknames. Think about it, is it so important in this matter originality? After all, in fact, nothing is new in this world, everything was once with someone else, so is it worth it to waste time inventing unpleasant words, instead of just enjoying each other's company? And the right words will come in response to feelings, by themselves. And let them be as old as the world, even if billions of lovers turn to each other, but these words will come from the heart, they will be sincere, and this is the most important thing.