Many do not understand what a break in relations means and why it is needed. Moreover, girls are often afraid: "What if he likes to be alone and he will not return?". And, nevertheless, it is the breaks in the relationship that sometimes allow one to retain feelings.
Is there a break in the relationship?
Such a unique timeout, which may be necessary, serves extremely good purposes. Refusing to communicate with a person, you can reduce the level of quarrels, refuse to reproach, move away from the grievances. In addition, during the break you can realize the value of the relationship, or on the contrary, that they have already exhausted themselves.
Of course, this practice does not suit all couples, but many of those who applied it, after that, with even greater zeal, sought each other. After all, if the feelings are real, the separation will only strengthen them, and make a couple closer.
How to arrange a break in the relationship?
Often, a timeout is required when a couple either ate life, or some unpleasant event occurred. Breaks in relations should be organized carefully, all before discussing, so that later there are no additional problems. It is worthwhile to discuss the following points:
- When will you start the break and when will you graduate? Usually 10-14 days is enough. For a longer period you will lose your temper, and you will need to get used to this person again, which in itself is quite difficult.
- Will you call up during a break or interrupt the communication completely? This should be discussed in advance, so that there are no offenses. Of course, the most effective break is without communication at all, but you can negotiate and call up every three days.
- Usually everyone makes a promise that will not allow
during the break of what he would not have allowed in the relationship. In addition, you can additionally specify any sharp points. A break is not a break, and letting yourself get acquainted with the opposite sex or similar things, and that this is exactly understood by both, it is worth saying this separately.
It is necessary to explain why you need a break in the relationship. Put yourself in the place of a partner - your proposal may sound insulting and unpleasant to him. It is worth discussing everything in advance, or finding a good reason - for example, to say that your grandmother needs care, and you will temporarily live with her, go on a business trip, etc. In this case, you can not say the words "break in the relationship" - it will look like a forced measure, so it will not offend the partner.