11 things you should never apologize for

Today, more and more people are appearing in the world who criticize others, and some people even spend most of their time criticizing how others live. However, you should not pay attention to anyone ... You do not have to explain to anyone what kind of lifestyle, what and whom you choose in life.

All that matters is the daily feeling that you are happy and love life. If you live according to your truth, you should not be ashamed or apologize to someone. Other people should not dictate how you live your life, so never apologize for the following things:

1. For your priorities.

What you want happiness for yourself is called a selfish, narcissistic idea. In fact, no one but you can make you happy. It is the filling of oneself with happiness that should become a priority in life.

If you took your life in your hands and do not expect anyone to teach you how to live, then you have already mastered important skills of self-development. We are 100% responsible for our lives, and only by placing our desires in the first place, we can become happy, and help others. After all, how can we help others if, first of all, we do not help ourselves?

2. For following your dreams.

If you want more from life, it does not make you ungrateful or spoiled. It makes you ambitious. This means that you have goals and dreams, and you want to achieve them while there is an opportunity. You do not agree to less than capable of actually. Others may perceive you simply as a dreamer who will never find happiness, but in the end, it does not matter what others think.

You can simultaneously be grateful for what you are given in life, and at the same time, strive for more, so to dream is not bad.

3. For choosing time for yourself.

In this rapidly changing world, most of us spend so much time caring for others and satisfying their needs, forgetting about their own needs. However, if we do not fill our "cups of happiness," then how can we fill others?

Serve yourself and think about yourself - it's not selfish, it's just necessary for our health. You should never apologize for a rejected invitation or for refusing someone to take care of yourself. Whether you booked a vacation in a 5-star hotel or took a whole day at the Spa, you should not feel guilty.

4. For your choice of partner.

No one can decide for you who will be next to you today. No one but you can decide what kind of boys or girls you like, so you do not need to be ashamed. Do not force anyone to climb into your relationship. While you truly love and are ready to care for a person, no one has the right to judge your choice. We are all one, and love lives in each of us. If someone does not agree with how you live and with whom you meet, then they simply do not belong in your life.

5. For expressing your sincere emotions.

Unfortunately, emotions in our time have become a shameful thing. Most of the time we spend in a society where we must listen or listen, but not express emotions. Do not let anyone tell you that you can not openly express your emotions. Of course, do not be angry publicly on the boss, that he does not raise you in the service. But in general, you must remember that we live in a society in which it is not accepted to express oneself. Yes, for every emotion there is time and place, but one should never be ashamed of what you are feeling at the moment.

6. For how you earn money.

It does not matter whether you earn billions or hundreds a year, if what you do brings you happiness. If the job allows you to support yourself and your family, although it is not considered highly paid and prestigious, and you like it, then never let anyone make you think otherwise.

7. For the fact that you are always optimistic.

In a world where people constantly tell us: "Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst", it's hard to remain an optimist. However, many scientists and researchers around the world recognize the benefits of positive thinking, among them - reducing stress, a longer life span, the development of creative thinking.

A positive mood in difficult times can create a miracle and make us more stable and able to better cope with problems.

8. For your past.

Some people like to remember the mistakes of others in the past. But while they criticize you and your life, you definitely need to know that what you have experienced is an experience from which you have extracted all that is needed. At the end of life, we will only have our impressions and memories, so do not allow anyone to take them away from you. We live and learn, and our past does not define us.

9. For what you eat.

People like to tell others how to eat right and what makes them feel better, but, in the end, it's up to you. Just as you should not dictate to others how to eat properly, do not let people dictate their eating habits. Vegans criticize meat eaters and think that this is the most optimal diet for all people, but, in fact, only you can decide what is right for you, not someone else.

10. For calling the "mainstream".

Some people are very fond of finding fault with many aspects of other people's lives, so that the latter becomes ashamed of how they live. We need to live in our truth, against what others say. Remember, if someone feels threat from your side, then he envies you. Sometimes people feel so uncomfortable and so unhappy with their lives that in order to feel better, they need someone to discuss, to envy someone.

No need to apologize if you want your children to study at home school, eat food grown in their own garden and want to teach their children by showing them real life, not what they show on television. Everyone deserves to live the life that would bring him happiness.

11. For your own opinion.

You can respect someone, regardless of the opinions of others. If you have an opinion, do not hesitate to express it, even if it does not coincide with the opinion of the majority. The world will never change if we leave our opinions to ourselves, because often the best ideas are born from our views and point of view.