The options for answering the question of why I can not get married are many. We will discuss a few of the most relevant to date. In this case, we will not consider the appearance of the pretender, since even very attractive and successful business women remain unmarried until old age.
Why do not they marry me?
The main reason why a woman or a girl can not get married is her subconscious. But the variations of the subconscious mood can be divided into several subcategories:
- The unsuccessful experience of the family life of parents, neighbors, friends, in general, the immediate environment automatically blocks the woman's subconscious perception of the possibility of a happy marriage. This fear scares off men on an emotional level.
- Excessive demands on the applicant for the role of the future husband - another reason why it is not possible to get married. In order to solve this problem, a woman needs to either rise to the level of her demands in moral, social and even sexual terms, or reduce the bar of requirements to a lower level.
- Insecurity in their own strength, their appearance, skills and abilities scare off potential suitors. Lovely women, understand, until you learn to love yourself, no one will love you. And do not be surprised and ask yourself every day the question of why I can not get married if every morning in the mirror you are looking in yourself for all the new shortcomings.
- It is also not possible to marry those women who have experienced an emotional shock from previous relationships or moral and sexual violence from men in a certain period of their lives. Such a woman from every new man expects only another meanness and she herself leads the newly emerging relationship in the opposite direction from seriousness.
- Some men are frightened by the excessive perseverance of a woman in marriage. Or vice versa, women's modesty and constantly hidden feelings lead a man into a stupor. Not knowing your desires, he just does not know what to do and the girl can not get married.
In any of these cases and the like, there can be only one way out: first change yourself and your worldview, stop avoiding the serious relationships you want, and you will be surprised how much the situation will change.