Male psychology in relation to women

Once it was simple - a woman gave birth and raised children, kept a family hearth, and a man brought home a fat mammoth (well, or a gopher, as lucky) and protected from the "wild wild forest" and no less savage tribesmen. Now people have changed skins for business suits, and have replaced mammoths with money, and women now often "hunt" at least men. However, in relationships, male and female psychology remained virtually unchanged. Since it is impossible to change for some 100-odd years, what has been formed by evolution has been over millions.

Male psychology in relationships

Despite the fact that mammoths have long since sunk into oblivion, a man still continues to consider himself a hunter in the depths of his soul. Therefore, the ancient truth - if you want to catch a man, make it so that he caught you, has not lost its relevance to this day. This of course does not mean that you need to dig in on the top of the nine-story tower and wait for your prince, but men are not too fond of too strong-hearted girls either.

The second important aspect, whatever your rich inner world, remember that a man does not go on dates with an X-ray machine, so the goods need to be shown face-up. After all, in the first place in a woman - he sees her appearance. And much later, he begins to wonder how you are a sincere person, and a good hostess.

And yet it is not necessary to demand from the man of a serious relationship, literally from the third date. After all, this is for women, in the first 15 seconds of meeting with a beautiful stranger, visions of their future together with him sweep through the head, up to the color of the wallpaper in the bedroom, men are further from the bedroom, or rather, the bed of thought does not go. Here is a man's psychology about women.

Psychology of male jealousy

Jealousy is a feeling that is equally familiar to the representatives of both sexes, but male jealousy has its own distinctive features that stem from the characteristics of male psychology.

The main difference between male jealousy and women is that they do not care so much for the feelings of their chosen one for another man, but for their possible consequences. In other words, a man is much harder to experience physical than spiritual betrayal. This is due to the need to be sure that the offspring, for the protection of which he will be wasting his strength, is exactly his.

Still man's jealousy, usually develops more slowly. However, the consequences of it are more unpredictable. And jealousy of a man can arise as an answer, for any changes that have occurred in the life of his chosen one, and even not directly related to the possibility of adultery - a new job, a hobby. Men generally do not like the changes that they did not plan.

Psychology of male infidelity

There is a common myth that a man, he says, is a polygamous male, and for him, loyalty to one woman is unnatural. Actually this is not true. Yes, the more male partners, the more descendants. However, in order for these very the descendants have grown, the efforts of one woman is not enough, she needs the help of the stronger sex. And in the natural environment in which human evolution has occurred, a man can protect and feed a maximum of 2 women and their common children with him.

So it turns out that man is more of a monogamous being, although an old woman can be a princess.

In general, for a man, betrayal is not necessarily related to the extinct feelings in the family. This is more of an adventure, a kind of extreme sport in which the identity of the one with whom you change, does not always matter. It's not for nothing that men have such a saying: "Bedding is not a reason for meeting."