Every person in life has moments of disappointments, falls, anxieties ... But one must always remember that life consists not only of white and black stripes, there is nothing unambiguous about it. But in spite of everything, life must be loved. Only then it will play with bright colors and open for you from the other side.
Troubles in the family, unloved work, a series of unbearable problems - all this darkens our life, makes it boring, can even lead to various kinds of psychological illnesses (for example, depression). In our age of haste, congestion, eternal pursuit of something new and the best is very important from time to time to stop and talk to myself - I really love life! How can you love life if there is not enough reason for this?
How to learn to love life?
So, in order to love life you need:
- Find the reason for your dislike for life. Maybe, in all your problems, it's not the coincidence of circumstances that is to blame, but you and your attitude to what is happening. Try to reconsider your behavior, and identify what in life you need to immediately change.
- Find positive moments in your life and decide what is really important to you. Ask yourself "why do I love life, for what I live?" It is necessary to live for the sake of something: for the sake of relatives, friends, children, work. Set priorities, do not give up on them and learn to appreciate what you have.
- Always think positively. Do not need to adjust yourself to the fact that everything will go wrong under any circumstances. Believe to the end in the successful achievement of the goal. Remember that the idea is material, and in order to attract good luck to your side, it is not superfluous to use the techniques of auto-suggestion. For example, describe on the sheet of paper an exciting situation and its positive outcome, or mentally draw up a model of the same situation, bringing it to its logical conclusion.
- Another sure way to adjust yourself to the right mode is to make up a "Collage of Desires". This is not only useful, but also an interesting, fascinating activity. To make a collage, you will need a sheet of paper, glue and, cut from magazines, symbols of your desires. Glue on paper everything you would like to have and what you would like to achieve, and hang the resulting poster in a prominent place. "Collage of desires" will be an excellent reminder that in life there is nothing inaccessible.
- Remember that life is an invaluable gift. Tell yourself that you love life because you have it alone, it is full of vivid emotions, it has given you close people, those without whom you do not represent your existence. Think about it, but many people live worse than you! The child does not obey? And someone can not have children! Small flat? And someone does not have it at all! In everything and always look for the pros.
- Perceive the difficulties encountered along the way as lessons that you can not do without in life.
Problems, troubles, stressful situations only harden, make stronger and more enduring. All this is a life experience. As in the song of Yuri Naumov - "The way out is always through pain." Not knowing the pain, without knowing the suffering and difficulties, it is impossible to appreciate the happiness and joy of life.
Look around! Life is not so bad as you think about it. Always remember that every person is born to be happy. It is only this you want and all the obstacles on the way will disappear the moment you firmly and decisively tell yourself: "I really love life!"