As your crumb grows, certain rules of behavior and prohibitions on certain actions enter into his life. Accumulating, they strongly influence both the behavior of the child and his future destiny.
Some parents do not know how to correctly explain to a child the word "impossible." And this leads to quarrels and scandals between the baby and the parents.
If you follow simple rules and understand how to teach a child the word "impossible", you can avoid such situations.
- Prohibitions should not be more than three at a certain stage in the life of the child. Let these "can not" relate to those actions that can harm the life and health of the baby.
- The ban must act constantly and regardless of the mood of the parents. If today something is forbidden, and already tomorrow is allowed, the child will not accept this prohibition.
- Success in learning largely depends on the degree of coherence of the actions of the parents. The ban must come from all members of the baby's family.
- You can not shout at the child, explaining to him that you can not do to children. If, despite the existing ban, the child disobeys, you need to talk with him, tell what emotions you caused this act, and also recall what kind of behavior you expect from your crumbs.
Gradually you will notice how easy it is to achieve the desired behavior from the baby, without resorting to either physical effects or scandals. In addition, you will show the child a normal, adequate behavior, which the child will later learn from you.
Many parents, wishing to forbid anything to a child, twitch it whenever it approaches the "forbidden" one. So do not do it, because it kills in the child's interest in knowing the world around. In addition, such actions of parents cause the child gradually accumulating feelings of anger.
Even if it seems to you that your child pretends not to understand the word "impossible", in no case should it be necessary to apply physical measures to the baby. You just need to talk to him, and he will understand you.