The problem of domestic violence is most often faced by women and children. Due to their physical weakness, these people have to suffer beatings and humiliation. However, it is worth noting that a person always has a choice - to endure or fight.
The causes of domestic violence lie in the unhealthy psyche of those who allow themselves to similarly treat their family members. An adequate and self-respecting person will never allow himself to cause pain and injury to those whom he loves and loves.
Much also depends on the temperament of a man, his nationality, examples from the personal life of his parents.
Domestic violence against women and children
The tyrant and despot in the person of the husband or the father is a real tragedy for the family. After all, women and children suffer, who need help, and the latter, sometimes, can not be expected anywhere.
Why can a man fall so low? Either he initially had mental disorders that did not manifest until a certain point, or these deviations were acquired over time. Under certain circumstances, a man simply "left the reel": loss of work and social status, huge monetary debts, any form of dependence - alcohol, drugs, gambling. Consider that the woman herself provokes a scandal and beatings - stupid and reckless. If only she does not suffer from a pronounced form of masochism.
The saying "Beats, means, loves" is also more like the ravings of a madman. What kind of love can be, when the whole face and body are bruised and bruised? No, thank you ... Such "love" is dangerous for life.
With regard to children, this is simply an unthinkable brutality. Beating children, humiliating them, revenge in this way a woman - such actions should be punished if not by execution, then for life it's for sure.
The protection of women against domestic violence, first of all, must come from them. It sounds a bit strange, but let's figure it out. Relatives can not always help, it is clear that they have their own problems. You can count on "guardians of order" only if your spouse is not an "important person" and does not have a fat wallet. Otherwise, he can simply buy his innocence.
How to protect yourself from domestic violence?
The answer is obvious: to run rushing headlong. Serve for a divorce, take the children and go away from such a man. Struggle to victory. Hand in medical examinations, contact various rights protection organizations, write applications for a husband to the police. Do not fool yourself with the illusion that he will change. If he resorts to systematic violence against you, he will not stop. This is not the case when a person can be corrected, re-educated.
Do not give up. If you do this, then at one "perfect" moment you will simply lose your life. Find the strength to fight. Think about the children - you are the mother and you have to protect them. Most importantly - you have to get it. Perhaps, physical training of the body is necessary to somehow be able to stand up for oneself. But much work needs to be done with your head - you
Victims of domestic violence should not tolerate it. You always have the opportunity to ask for help from relatives, friends, neighbors. People around, though not always, but are able to show sympathy and provide at least some help. Do not be silent about your problem, it must be solved immediately. Take care of yourself and do not be afraid of anything. It's fear that makes us disabled, because we become limited in our abilities - how, it's terrible after all.