Disappointment in love

If eternal love exists, it is likely that not the first time you will be lucky enough to meet that very ideal person for you. After all, in order to appreciate your elected partner, life partner, you need to understand what exactly you need for complete happiness. What kind of person do you want to see next to you? What should it be? Naturally, the answers to these questions can only be found by the method of our own trial and error. No one will tell you with whom you will be comfortable, until you yourself do not understand. No other way.

But, nevertheless, every time, whether the first or any subsequent, it seems to you that he is exactly the one and only. It's the one who needs it! And when, after a while, you realize that there is not ... again that's not it. And it does not matter why it did not happen: maybe it does not fit your ideas, maybe it behaves somehow not as you would like, or maybe it could not appreciate you on its merits. The reasons can be different and, most importantly, everyone has their own. But, nevertheless, the result is similar in almost every single case: parting is a small death, a small death of a part of our soul.

How to experience frustration in love?

We all understand that most human relationships lead to separation and depression. Let's try to prevent imminent consequences, or at least reduce their impact on our lives.

  1. Think about what someone is now really worse than you. Indeed, how many people have tragedies and disappointment in a man, in a boyfriend, in a loved one is not at all an excuse to cut your veins, rush from the bridge, etc.
  2. Constantly something to do. The best cure for frustration in the beloved is work. Act and thus distract yourself so that bad thoughts do not enter your head.
  3. Release the person. Do not keep in mind the person with whom you for some reason can no longer be together. Do not blame, try not to get bored - do not even think about it. This is a passed stage.

And remember, "everything that is not done - is done for the better." Live your life, full of colors and optimism, then surely love will come to you. And who knows, maybe this love will become the love of your whole life.