Intimate problems in our society are usually ignored or ignored. Women who have the disease to which this article is devoted, very often, in the absence of sexual satisfaction or sex as such, accuse their partner, inappropriate conditions, poor health - even without realizing that they are not sick.
Vaginismus is a disorder that prevents vaginal penetration of any type, including during sexual contact. This is due to the fact that the pubic-coccygeal muscle is involuntarily reduced. Such reductions occur very unexpectedly, due to which the opportunity to have sex is either very painful or even absent.
Vaginismus - Symptoms
Women suffering from such a disease, absolutely can not control the spasm. The principle of reducing the pelvic muscles in vaginism is similar to the mechanism of blinking the eye when trying to penetrate into it foreign objects. The degree of pain and duration of each woman is very individual, in particularly severe cases it can last up to several days after an attempt to penetrate. The danger of this disease is not only that it very often provokes a break in relations, constant conflicts in the family and is a source of great stress, but that in such a situation there is a risk of a virgin marriage, which in some cases can exist up to 10 -15 years.
If in the descriptions of symptoms, you found something similar to your "delicate" situation, then you probably had questions about: "how to get rid of vaginismus and is it even possible?"
Vaginismus - treatment
The incidence of this pathology is low. According to statistics, on average 3-4% of young girls suffer from vaginismus.
Causes of Vaginismus
The emergence of such a disorder can provoke a number of factors:
- fear of the first sexual intercourse;
- rape;
- lack of basic knowledge of sexual life;
- severe fright or stress;
- lack of natural lubrication during sexual intercourse, etc.
As you have noticed, among the list of reasons there are both physiological and purely psychological. To successfully treat this disease, it is necessary to refer to specialists first. If the examination at the gynecologist has not yielded results, and no physiological abnormalities have been found, then the root of the problem lies in your psychological mood. In this case, you need to contact a sexologist.
How to cure vaginismus?
A woman very rarely notifies her sexual partner, that she has some kind of deviation in the intimate sphere. The man does not even think about the existence of vaginal muscle contractions, which are the reason for the girl's refusal to have sex.
Treatment of this disease should be comprehensive and include:
- gynecological examination, consultations with a sexologist;
- psychoanalysis;
- individual therapy, behavioral therapy.
Treatment of vaginismus in the home
If you want to enhance the effectiveness of treatment, you will also have to do some home workouts in addition to visiting specialists in this field.
Exercises with vaginismus
The most effective and simple exercise is the mastery of the pelvic muscles. To do this, you need to "stiffen"
Treatment of vaginismus is short, in especially severe cases, up to 10 procedures are necessary. With mutual understanding between partners and their common desire to overcome the obstacle, the woman is soon fully recovering and can enjoy all the joys of intimacy.