As the hero of the famous movie said: "Life is like a zebra: a black strip, a white strip, and then a tail and ...". But, alas, if you are now at the stage of the "black band", you somehow do not reassure this comparison.
We can lose our jobs, we can quarrel with all our relatives and friends, but if in our house there remains that corner of comfort and love, which actually is called "home", we will certainly survive all. But, what to do when a crack occurs at home, because this is the most painful for a person. How to be, when together and bad, and apart from unbearable? Let's talk about how to save the family, if its integrity is under a big question, with the help of prayers for consent in the family.
Prayer from the scandals of St. Paraskeva
St. Paraskeva lived in the III century in Iconium (now Greece). She was born in a pious family, so her parents called her Paraskeva - in translation, it means Friday. Honoring the day of the passions of Christ, Paraskeva grew very god-pleasing, and decided to give a vow of celibacy to devote her life to preaching the faith of Christ among the Gentiles.
For this she died. Pagans caught Paraskeva and offered to sacrifice a pagan idol in exchange for freedom. But she rejected the offer. She was tormented with nails, tied to a tree, and then beheaded.
It is believed that the icons of Martyr Paraskeva protect the house from disagreements in the family. Therefore, the prayer for scandals in the family should be read necessarily before her icon and with the lit church candle.
In prayer, ask for the protection of the family, for sending down divine grace to all your loved ones, for establishing a charitable way of life in your home.
Prayer for the preservation of the family Saint Matrona of Moscow
Holy Matrona Moscow is considered the patroness of orphans and orphanages. Especially she cares about children, therefore it is accepted to ask her for help in their upbringing.
Matron pray for finding a job and home, a successful marriage. And also pray for the preservation of the family, in cases when the reason for the discord is the absence of one's own home (the couple lives with their parents), problems with children (radically different views on upbringing), or difficulties at the work of spouses.
Before you read the prayer for understanding in the family, Matron needs to bring a donation. You need to feed a homeless, frail person, or a stray animal, a bird with one of the following foods:
- black bread;
- biscuit;
- raisins;
- walnuts;
- crackers;
- honey;
- flour;
- sugar.
You can also bring to the temple or put in front of the icon Matrona houses flowers - chrysanthemums, carnations, lilacs.
Saints Guriy, Samon and Aviv
These Holy patrons of a happy family and marriage, they pray for peace in the family. Guriy and Samon were Christian preachers in the city of Edessa. However, their life fell on the reign of the Gentiles. Two friends were seized and offered to change their religion, but both refused, for which they were first cruelly tortured, then decapitated.
Many years later, the Christian deacon Aviv appeared in the same city. The Emperor signed a decree about his burning, and he did not hide (in order to not cause harm to other people in search), appeared before him and entered the fire with prayer. They say his body was taken from the ashes untouched.
Tip
But, before asking God for a miracle, think about what you can do personally. It is not necessary to enjoy the favor of the Almighty, a miracle can be sent only when the man himself has done his best.
If you have problems with your husband, try to talk to him (just do not quarrel and make a complaint). It is impossible to speak, the husband has closed in itself, try to dispel it. You in fact know, that he likes, in what places feels well, what dishes bring to him special pleasure.
When God sees your efforts, he will certainly help to consolidate the result.
Prayer to the Martyr Paraskeva
Prayer to Saint Matron of Moscow
Prayer to Holy Guria, Samon and Aviv
