We are horrified reading House of the 16th century, and wonder how much violence there was in the family. Women could be suppressed both physically and morally. However, even these days it is not yet uprooted: families still exist in which the husband is a psychological tyrant. It is important to recognize such a person in time to make a decision, having all the information.
Signs of a psychological tyrant husband
If we talk about the psychology of the tyrant's husband, then his main goal is power. He considers himself not the head of the family, but almost the owner of all household members, and he is sure that they should do only what he allowed them. Consider the main signs of a tyrant husband:
- He puts his wife in a dependent position - material and psychological.
- He criticizes any action, it is easy to get rid of himself.
- He talks rudely and unceremoniously.
- He does not speak or ask, but immediately demands and cries.
- For many of them it is perfectly normal to hit a woman.
- He can not be pleased, it always turns out that you have done something wrong.
- As a rule, such a man - an alcoholic, a drug addict, a player, however, sometimes in the initial stages.
- He is never responsible for his words and does not fulfill his promises.
- He forbids communicating with friends or family.
- He dismisses ugly jokes in your direction, and when you are offended, you remain guilty - because of "lack of sense of humor."
- He can be groundlessly jealous, humiliating and even punishing for imperfect crimes.
- He constantly reminds us who is the master of the house.
- He restricts financially, not allowing to dispose of finances.
Knowing what are the signs that the husband is a domestic tyrant , you easily figure out if your spouse belongs to this category. If more than half of the items coincide, this is a very bad sign. What to do if the husband is a tyrant, you decide. But you know, these people do not change. And if only you do not want to live in humiliations all your life, it's easier to leave now.