Now popular popular phrase "good leftist strengthens marriage." However, it would be difficult to find at least one family, which the situation with treason would have pleased or rallied. On the contrary, it always carries a lot of negativity, physical disgust, complexes and a sense of wasted years spent. And yet, is there life after betrayal?
Family life after betrayal
As a rule, the very fact of betrayal of the relationship may not change, although the relations because of this become more cold and detached. The crisis occurs, as a rule, at the moment when the second half finds out about this incident.
It does not really matter who changed - husband or wife. It is important that it was a link - maybe a passing fancy, and maybe a serious love, which jeopardizes the possibility of further continuation of the relationship.
In any case, there will be nothing in the old way. As a rule, in each quarrel the outcast side emerges as the winner: after all, this person now has the main discrediting argument. However, to flaunt one's own "kindness" and forgiveness is a way to a standstill: thus the situation will very slowly retreat into the past. It will hurt everyone.
Family life after the betrayal of her husband
After that, the first realization of this situation will come, try to pull yourself together and weigh everything. Whatever pride is not spoken to you, you should still listen to your heart: if no matter what this person is dear to you, there is no point in abandoning it through force. And on the contrary, if you are strongly disgusted, and your feelings are gone, it's an occasion to at least take a time-out and, if possible, part time. If this is not possible, try to contact less, so that your feelings will settle down.
Life after the betrayal of her husband will invariably go according to one of several scenarios: either you leave, or you stay, and he corrects, or you remain, and he continues his campaigns to the left.
To forgive is to forget and never to remember. Vorosh past, you will not do better to anyone. Life after betrayal is adjusted very slowly, and the less mention of the incident, the easier.
If the family has children, the best solution is to protect them from this information. The relationship between mom and dad is not the relationship of the parent and the child, and it is not necessary to tune the younger ones against the husband. This will lead to a mass of psychological problems in their future.