Very many people who are interested in the question, whether love is possible at a distance, are waiting for instructions and advice from a psychologist. But once a wonderful writer Kuprin said very correct words, which were repeatedly confirmed by time. For the love of separation - the same as the wind for the flame: a weak love - will extinguish, and the bigger will inflate more forcefully.
Love in the distance - what to do?
It is very difficult and painful to be separated from two loving hearts. Because constantly there is a desire to see each other, to hear, to embrace, to kiss. But since the life situation has developed in such a way that we had to part for a while, then we will have to accept and overcome this test.
It is very difficult to be aware of the separation that your loved one seems to be, and at the same time he is not around. It is especially difficult if you spent all your time together before parting.
Before the separation you should discuss the future parting, find out if there is at least one chance to save your love, are there any pros and cons of such a relationship.
Distance - not a hindrance for love
Is love possible at a distance - it is possible, but on condition that:
- The love you have is mutual and complete, i.e. with the presence of sex. In our time, young people often shout about a high feeling without testing it. Talking to each other about love, do not confuse it with passion. Passion and love are completely different feelings . Without mutual love, relationships at a distance are completely impossible. As for sex, if you did not have it, then nothing binds you, so for a short period of time you even forget about the existence of each other.
- You know exactly for what period you are parting, i.e. the date of the next meeting. In general, this is a very important psychological moment. Knowing the exact date of arrival of a loved one, it is much easier to wait. You realize how much time is left before your meeting. Many girls like to fantasize about how a date will pass after a long separation, and they always consider the days before returning.
- You trust each other. Without mutual trust, you will not succeed, the distance will kill love. From the very beginning, jealousy will begin, which will smoothly flow into quarrels and mutual reproaches. And frequent quarrels will lead to a complete break in relations.