No wonder they say that decent girls on the first date do not kiss. Although, of course, looking at what goals while both are pursuing. If you want nothing to do with non-binding relationships, intimacy, kiss on health. But if you are thinking about building a long relationship and creating a strong union - find out how to start it right.
Let go of the past - you will find the present
If you are still mourning your recent love, cherish your memoirs, think of a former lover, and, moreover, perhaps look for a new gentleman like him - nothing will come of it. It's not enough just to wish to "find someone", it is important to prepare yourself for this meeting.
To begin with, "release" your memories, free yourself from the failed relationship. Get rid of the negative, so as not to transfer it to new, barely born feelings. Leave in memory only good, pleasant moments. Do not keep evil and resentment against someone who has not lived up to your expectations. Better mentally thank him for his invaluable experience.
Being ready for a new meeting and feelings is the secret of a long relationship.
Start to enjoy life again. Work on yourself, self-confidence. Change outwardly, find an interesting hobby, do in the apartment (in your room) repair or rearrangement of furniture.
Abandon standards and templates as to how your new man should be. When there is a long-awaited meeting, let him open up. Try to see, first of all, its positive qualities and sides, and not contrived, nonexistent in it features.
The pledge of long relationships lies in trust between partners, the desire to take care of each other and in an effort to preserve harmony. Be yourself, do not play "other people's roles" and do not build personal life on some scenario, another's one again. You will have your own "picture" of your love.
The community of interests and plans for the future is another necessary condition for how to make the relationship long and happy. Look for a person close to you in spirit, and you will not be disappointed.