Since childhood, girls are told fairy tales, in which the happy end, as a rule, is marked by a lavish wedding. It is only natural that the dreams of a beautiful prince, a white dress and vows of eternal love grow together with the little princesses. Therefore, the question "Will I marry?" Never loses its relevance.
Modern society with its free morals no longer guarantees that the person with whom you have long relationships, start a joint life and, possibly, start children, will make a coveted proposal. Why does this happen? The answer is obvious. If you used to live together without causing condemnation of others, it was possible only after the wedding, now the overwhelming majority thus checks the feelings, whether they will withstand the check of life. To begin with, they prefer to do without unnecessary formalities, it is better to get to know each other, not knowing how much this can drag on.
The popularity of a civil marriage leads to the fact that more and more princesses are left without their own ball and are forced to think endlessly: "Will I ever get married?" And look for reasons that make this holiday impossible.
Education of a young couple plays a big role in marriage. After all, in addition to those girls who dream about the wedding and run around fortunetellers with the question: "How much will I marry?", There are those who openly declare: "And I do not want to get married!". The former want confidence in the future, and the latter are worried about their freedom.
Now let's imagine the situation in which everything goes to the wedding. You have a loved one, you spend a lot of time with him, maybe you already live together. What issues related to marriage will you be concerned about?
How soon will I get married?
In order to answer this question, think about how long you have been together, how strong your relationship is, how your chosen one is related to marriage (it's no secret that some men consider it an empty formality and a waste of money), do you have any joint plans for future, do you plan on having children. Have you discussed these issues with your partner? In vain. Carefully talk to him. Do not start hysterics on the topic "I want to get married," but calmly ask how he represents his life in three years.
If he does not even think about the family, but tells only about moving up the career ladder, perhaps this is not an excuse to get upset. Now most men prefer to gain material independence and only then have a family. Moreover, one can ask about his place in his life, thus hinting that you plan to stay close and support him in all undertakings. This conversation will clarify a number of important points.
In principle, the answer to the question "How soon will I get married?" Is simple enough: as soon as you and your chosen one are ready for this step.
Am I ready to get married?
It is extremely important to be honest with yourself and know for sure that you know your lover well, you can trust him with anything, you are sure that he will not run away, faced with the first difficulties.
And what attracts you in marriage? If this is the only opportunity to call all the girlfriends to say "I'm getting married soon!", The pre-holiday fuss and the very celebration, one should think about what will happen after the wedding. Are you ready to move from romantic dates to the prose of everyday life. Imagine how much time you can devote to yourself, and how much more household duties will increase. Indeed, all fairy tales end with a wedding, but I want it to be eternal. But in life together there are also many advantages. And it is in her place that a warm love and a sense of confidence will come to replace the flared up love. After all, marriage will put part of the obligations on your spouse, which means you can safely plan children and boldly acquire joint property.
I will never marry!
This bold statement can now be heard from the fair sex of all ages. And, despite the progressive society, it is usually perceived with hostility. But it's worth just thinking about why this decision was made. Perhaps the girl was very disappointed in men (and not necessarily in her experience), but she may be self-sufficient enough to go boldly in life alone, do not need someone's support, and do not want to share her time with someone. In any case, each person is responsible for his own happiness, so he is fully entitled to make such decisions. However, if they are based on painful experience, a psychological correction is necessary.