Relationships are like a fragile vessel that easily breaks down on boring everyday life and monotonous everyday life. As the ancient proverb says: "everything flows, everything changes", and the relationship here is not an exception, they must also change.
It's no secret that there are "crisis dates" that fall on the most difficult moments, when relations either collapse or grow stronger. And the main harbinger of this "dangerous" time is precisely the emergence of the question of how to diversify relations.
The main role for the introduction of diversity in relations is assigned to a woman: after all, she has a large arsenal consisting of artistry, cunning and resourcefulness. But, nevertheless, a man should also take part in the renewal of feelings.
Varieties can be pursued in different ways: honest and dishonest, but the main rule here is to be witty and have a mutual desire for change. So, off with the routine: start reloading the relationship!
How to diversify sexual relations?
All the changes that are introduced into the sex life, should meet the wishes of both partners. Therefore, before starting a "sexual revolution", determine the predilection of the lover. It is advisable to do it in secret from him, then to arrange a surprise. Keep in mind that selfishness in sex is not the best position: to get something, you must first give something, so take a step forward, and satisfy one of his secret desires, and then wait for the "reciprocal move."
The game is a natural state for any person. Throughout the day, we try on many roles: mother, co-worker, wife, enemy, friend, etc. Why not add another: choose an image (a nurse, a sexy maid, a passionate cowboy, an inexperienced girl, etc.), change clothes and show it in the best light. Play on his instincts, change, because men are polygamous.
To add "pepper" you can tie your hands, blindfold, have sex in an unusual place.
Tip: To guess with your lover's sexual desire, look in his computer for the history of visited sites (or magazines on the bookshelf): sometimes every man comes to pages with dubious contents and looks at what excites him most. If you are lucky to find, then this material can be taken as a basis and implemented in life.
How to diversify family relations?
Before you begin to introduce diversity into family relationships, decide what they lack most: passion, spiritual intimacy, cohesion, etc. This should be the basis for the tactic of renewal.
If the relationship is mired in everyday life, visit interesting places. Start with an elementary trip to the cinema in the evening and then arrange a romantic walk. Even in small towns there are excursion bureaus: go on weekends outside the city and make mini-trips. The renewal of emotions is the basis for the regeneration of relationships.
If you feel spiritual alienation, agree to read the book together, and then discuss it, focus on sincerity, and other high moral values.
To the family was cohesive, enter the tradition. For example, on Saturday night together go for a walk or watch movies, invite friends to visit. It is important that this is done together and systematically.
How can you diversify the relationship for a couple with an "experience"?
Those who have long shared a single roof and know all the features of each other, it may seem that surprise a partner is an impossible task. Nevertheless, this is not so, it is even easier for them to do this than for young couples, because in this case people know each other well. A classic example: a husband loves fishing. Confess to him in love, blindfold and sit in the car. Do not say where you are taking him, because there he should expect a surprise: an established tent on the river bank and friends. If the surprise is planned correctly, then everything will be wonderful. With the help of such surprises, we need to renew relations that last more than a decade.
How to make a difference in the attitude of a young couple?
First and foremost, the problem of short-lived relations is that partners do not know each other well enough, and therefore the chances that a surprise may "fail" are quite high. Nevertheless, the situation needs to be saved, and therefore, the risk is justified, so we proceed boldly to one of the ways:
- extreme: we lead a partner to ride rollerblades, skates, bicycles, etc .;
- We invite to the cinema for a nightly session of the most horrible horror film;
- the most "quiet" option: we cook dinner together.
Here the main goal is to establish a psychological affinity with the partner. After all, it happens that the first kiss occurred, timid hugs are already part of any of your walks, but something is missing in the relationship, one boredom. Some couples begin to compensate for the "quiet idyll" with scandals, to somehow revive each other. Nevertheless, the best option is to experience strong emotions together with one of the listed methods.
As practice shows, there are many ways to revitalize relations, but to become effective they must be used regularly.