"He avoids meeting." "Does not call". "I do not feel that I need him." "I want everything to be as before." "I missed him." "I do not understand what is happening with him now." "I feel that something is wrong" ... These and other phrases of the girl (woman) begin to pronounce when the relationship with a loved one is apparently worsening.
What to do when the symptoms are noticed?
At this stage, it is better not to panic, but not to let the relationship on its own:
- not justify the man herself, as if: "It's okay, just a whole week can not replenish the account," or: "Come on, he just does not have the mood";
- if you say to yourself: "He just does not have time" - think about it. We always pay attention to a loved one, if that's what we want. Not only women, if desired, will be able to find time to call. This is not difficult at all, and will not cause much damage to the work. It is necessary to soberly realize.
This was one side of the question. Now try to look at it from a different angle. As if from his side. You need to become more attentive to your man and listen to yourself. Heart and female intuition will tell. Put yourself in his place. "Problems at work. Deterioration of health. A catastrophic lack of time. Some financial difficulties. " Are these reasons insufficiently respectful, in order to postpone the meeting? He really can have urgent business, and your lack of confidence in your loved one can hurt him very much. Do not forget about it.
How can I understand that my husband has fallen out of love?
Do not feel sorry for yourself! Ask yourself and answer sincerely, maybe he does not answer your SMS because he just does not have time to read them? And he can not call you first because you are always ahead of him? And when we tell everything ourselves, leaving no chance to ask - then complain that we are not interested!
Since we are afraid to lose our dear, we tend to exaggerate. We do not notice how we wind up ourselves. Instead of talking about what concerns us, we are thinking about this problem. And nothing is solved in the end.
But in any relationship, not one is to blame. Think about what could cause such an attitude, try to improve. To again do not raise the question: "How to understand that you have fallen out of love"?
How to understand that the guy fell out of love?
- regularly avoids meetings. And in his justification he comes up with really stupid reasons;
- was seen in a lie;
- cold look, detachment;
- gross, brutality;
- not attentive to you;
- not interested in you, your affairs, interests;
- constantly irritable and raises his voice, showing anger. When you tell him about it, he does not want to agree. Sincerely can not realize this;
- compared with the way it was before, you can say with certainty that it has become less likely to appear at home;
- you almost do not communicate at all;
- indifferent;
- constantly criticizes you, not noticing anything good about you;
- there are no topics for conversation;
- stopped hating your hysterics;
- you stopped working on your relationship and do not watch yourself completely.