Of all kinds of service novels, perhaps the most dangerous is a romance with someone who stands higher on the career ladder. In the end, if the object of attachment was an engineer from a neighboring department, it would even be perceived by colleagues in a different way.
A novel with a boss is a very ambiguous phenomenon, which involves great problems at work, and just an uncomfortable situation, if you do not succeed. Before you even start a love affair with your boss, you should weigh everything properly. Any love can be prevented at an early stage and ignored. But if you gave the feelings a move, and even learned that they are mutual, you will already be difficult to stop. So try to think things through:
- When there are rumors in the office that you have an affair with the boss, this may not be the best way to reflect on your reputation and relations with the team.
- A romance with a married boss in most cases means that he will pay you a minimum of time and never become yours. Should I waste time on it?
- A service romance with a boss can be useful for your career and salary, but when it is over, you will find yourself in a very unenviable position.
- If the boss is free and he himself gives you signs of attention, you must immediately decide whether you accept or reject it. There are plenty of cases of persecution by men, and it's not always pleasant for a girl.
- Think like a chess player, a few moves ahead. What is the probability that due to this novel you will not have to change your work in the future? If the workplace is expensive for you, you need to weigh it carefully.
In any case, if you are guided by common sense, and not impressions from fairy tales and romance novels, then you certainly can reasonably assess the situation and decide whether the game is worth the candle.