Sex was always. Even in the distant Soviet Union, when all this was carefully concealed and people were shy of their desires. Other times have come: television and the media do not hide the piquant details of people's lives. Everybody knows about sex and nobody is ashamed of this occupation. On the contrary, there appeared a lot of TV programs, literature, which covers the issues of "art of love". Sex is different, and even random. About this and talk today.
Where and when?
Under what circumstances are casual relationships and sex? Most often, such situations occur where there are many representatives of the opposite sex, "hot" drinks, fun and drive:
- night club. The atmosphere of carefree, relaxed and flirting, intimate atmosphere - all this is more than a tempting reason for further night adventures of a loving nature. Most often, the acquaintance takes place behind a bar counter, where a "pretty" girl gets to know a "generous" man. If both pursue sex with a casual interlocutor, then this is the case. Let's be frank, there are those who prefer not to postpone their sexual impulses and have sex in the club, finding a suitable place for this secluded place;
- baths and saunas. Option to continue dating in a nightclub. Modern holiday complexes give out chic rooms, where you can get your heart out and enjoy the intimacy with your partner. It looks like this: you were offered to go swimming in the pool, you arrived at the place and "accidentally" engaged in sex;
- hotel. To come and take a room is not a problem nowadays. There would be money, as they say. Fast casual sex - this is enough for a couple of hours. The main thing is not to save on the cleanliness, comfort and reputation of the hotel complex.
With whom and why?
Random sex, as a rule, happens to a stranger. Non-committal relationships "at night" - this is a private matter for everyone. However, if you are married or have a serious relationship, then your relationship is considered a betrayal. Accidental sex by drunk, in this case, can only be a "mitigating" circumstance. Responsibility for your unscrupulous behavior from you no one removes.
Why does a person go to all serious? The reasons can be very diverse:
- sexual desire. For someone, sex is the first necessity. The brutal "appetite" prevents you from thinking about something else;
- attraction to a particular person. A sudden rush of emotion and passion towards someone can cause casual sex. What to do after such an event, especially if sex was unprotected? First, check for sexually transmitted infections and possible pregnancy. Secondly, do not feel guilty, because there is nothing to fix. Accept the events and try to find positive moments (at least in sex itself);
- stress, depression. Remove psychological tension, fatigue and anxiety. Being in a depressed state, there is often casual sex with a friend or girlfriend. Friends met, shared their grief and problems, drank to health, and to bed;
- revenge. Revenge your beloved in this way - the idea is quite frequent. Only where is the logic? If you love,
Will you really hurt this man? Here you just try to console yourself. - interest and curiosity. This is the most common cause of casual group sex. In the same club, two girls can go to the "night rendezvous" with one or more guys. Alcohol in such cases creates "miracles". Substantially tipsy, the girlfriends can start caressing each other and then they will not notice how they will be joined by a young man excited by what they saw.
Remember that everything is good in moderation and everything must be approached responsibly. Look for pleasure where there is no threat to your health and life.