Every girl dreams of being a princess, and her prince must necessarily become a prince on a snow-white horse. Unfortunately, life makes its own corrections and instead of princes we often meet ... well, not exactly princes. On the psychological characteristics of some men and will be discussed.
Psychology of the male manipulator
Just make a reservation that only psychologically mutilated people become manipulators. Usually they are very insecure, but they try not to show it outwardly. Manipulators can often show aggression , in those situations when they are not threatened. The most malicious "trolls" on the Internet are just manipulators.
From the point of view of psychology, male manipulators can not experience love at all, and for them, a relationship with a woman is only a way to profit in financial, everyday, emotional or sexual terms. In general, such a person is not capable of ordinary human feelings, be it friendship or love. After all, in order to build relationships based on sympathy and trust, and not on profit and selfish interest, you need to be a self-sufficient person. It means - to love and accept yourself and the whole world, with all its shortcomings.
Psychology of the man-egoist
In the previous paragraph, we spoke of self-love as an important quality of a self-sufficient person. However, many confuse self-love with selfishness, but this is not the same thing. Egoism - warped, hypertrophied, as it were reflected in the crooked mirror form of self-love. For the egoist, absolute value only has his own personality, he perceives other people only as a means to achieve his own goals. Such a man is usually interested in himself. All the conversations around him revolve around a loved one. Yes, there's talk, around the whole universe revolves around his personality . For a man of the egoist, there are only two points of view - his and the wrong. In a dispute, he will always stand up for his point of view, not taking into account the arguments of the enemy, even if they are weighty. He acts, always guided only by his desires and preferences.
From the standpoint of psychology and common sense, a woman in dealing with such a man needs to be able to defend his interests, and not always go on his way. Only then will he respect you and be reckoned with.
Psychology of male owner
In fact, all men in one way or another - the owners. And from the point of view of psychology, this is due to the fact that a man, harder to endure treason, because. it undermines his confidence that he is the father of the children of his woman. Usually, this does not particularly interfere with the relationship. However, there are also very serious cases, when the instinct of the proprietor grows into a pathology. Such men plague a woman with her jealousy, leading her to the point of absurdity. For example, one is forced to wear almost a veil, to report for every second spent outside his field of vision, etc. etc.
Male owners are often very insecure, in their attractiveness to the female. This behavior is typical for men who are much older than their own passions. Although there are also such owners who themselves do not mind "going to the left," and judge, as they say, others on their own.
Psychology of the tyrant man
There are two types of tyrant here:
- "Tyrant-lion" is a very powerful man, accustomed to everyone obeying him. Usually has a high position in society - a major boss, a businessman. In general, this is someone who is used to leading and does not know how his word can be questioned at all.
- "Tyrant-jackal" - unlike the previous type, in life there is not much that has been achieved, that's self-asserting at home's expense. Maybe on occasion, and raise his hand, and scream if the mood is completely ugly. However, when on his way is someone who is stronger than him, or higher
by status, or simply can give change, immediately turns into a trembling and licking creature.
Psychology of a greedy man
Firstly, let's define in terms: a greedy man, this is not someone who does not want to indulge all women's whims and fill her with gifts. Typical, even the standard representative of this type of man is Plyushkin, the hero of the novel by N. Gogol "Dead Souls." Fortunately, in real life such characters are rare. However, there are quite tight-fisted peasants who do not want to understand that those lovely little boots are not just another "babbish whim", but the last trend of the season, well, absolutely necessary in the wardrobe of every self-respecting woman.