She can not understand in any way, why pretend - that they are a family, instead of officially registering their relationship? It seems to him that they have a family, and there is no need to do something else, because they are already together. And then the girl thinks about how to marry him to herself, how to make this man do, finally, offer and present the ring?
Step One: Check
Men are essentially hunters, and their prey is women. And who are you: the next trophy in the series of victories or that one for his boyfriend, whom he will let him marry to himself - how important it is for us to know! After all, girls so easily succumb to man's charm! So ask yourself 7 questions and find out - is it worth it to marry this man to yourself - before you finally lose your head by getting caught up in his network:
- Taking the number of your phone, he did not call back the next day or called immediately?
- Is he late when he meets you, or always comes on time?
- Does he let loose trivial jokes, only interested in sex with you, or seeks to understand your desires and needs, your values and goals?
- Does your requirements ignore or are you ready to obey them, if this is important for you?
- Are you hiding from your relatives, friends, colleagues or already introduced to your relatives?
- Refuses to go to your company or to your parents or agrees to meet with them?
- Does he think of talking about children prematurely or seriously thinking about a future family?
If your chosen one is attentive and attentive, respects you and considers it with your requirements, accompanies you to informal meetings and family celebrations and does not conceal your relationship - you should make efforts to marry this guy himself, as he values you and does not want to lose you .
Step Two: Clarifying the Situation
Many women can not understand in any way: why they have to wait so long, why there is no initiative from a loved one and she herself must think about how to marry him to herself? There are only 3 answers to these questions:
- Your man is already married to someone.
- You are not the woman he is looking for and on which he would like to marry.
- You did not tell him that you want weddings and did not demand that he marry you.
It is not easy for women to accept any of these answers. They are afraid to learn that they have a rival, are afraid to find out the truth, which will be too painful for them, finally, they are stopped by the fear of getting rejected and staying alone. However, for the device of a safe personal life it is important to know everything that concerns your relationship.
And if you are sure that he loves you and there are no obstacles to the wedding - take the third step to marry your beloved man, because he himself is unlikely to dare.
Step Three: Requirement
All men know: marriage and family - this is stress. And they also know that sooner or later it will happen to them. But for many of them there is no sense to hurry, especially if their beloved woman is silent and does not say anything about the wedding. Therefore, you need to decide what you want - to see next to a lover or husband; marry him to yourself, because he is waiting for the initiative from you, or wait for him to decide and do it himself? And how much longer will you wait? A year, two or maybe ten? More? Is it not better to tell your man:
"I love you so much, you and I are doing so well, that I did not even dream about it. And now I really want to marry you. I want you to think about it and set a date for our wedding. Until we are married, I can not feel really happy. "
Love is stronger than fear
Of course, it's not easy to decide on such a conversation first, since girls are not supposed to tell men that they want to marry them to themselves. But is it easy to live with a man, give birth to his children, and then remain alone, because he had no intention of creating a family? Why spend years on something that does not suit you? It's better to demand now that he act like a man and let him know if you marry him or let him go, because he does not love you and does not suit you.
Do not be afraid to lose it. If he refuses - this is not your man. If he really loves you, he will succumb to you.