Correct communication with people

Every day a person enters into a conversation with someone. People can not but communicate. Communication is one of human needs. But for the effectiveness of the conversation, it would not be out of place to learn that proper communication with people implies the implementation of certain rules.

Rules for correct communication

Correct communication is the basis of an ideal interaction with society, which has its origin from people with higher social status and ending with ordinary workers. Improvement of communication skills will give you good results during, for example, negotiations with important partners for your business, will create a pleasant impression of you.

To achieve this goal, to improve your level of communication, we recommend that you adhere to the following recommendations:

  1. Do not forget about politeness. With unfamiliar people do not cross the zone of their personal space, watch the distance between you and the interlocutor. From the beginning of the conversation do not rush to "poke." Take care not to slip slang words in your lines.
  2. Remember the name of the interlocutor. It will not be superfluous to address him by name several times for the entire conversation. Do not be distracted by anything stranger during a conversation.
  3. Regardless of the situation, be kind.
  4. Be an honest man. Do not lie. Sooner or later, but they will find out about the lies.
  5. Know how to listen.
  6. Do not forget to smile.
  7. Do not threaten or demand.

Correct communication with customers

Here are some recommendations for proper communication with customers:

  1. Do not bend the stick during communication.
  2. Actively support the conversation, confidently behave.
  3. Ask questions, discussing all the details.
  4. Have all your point of view, boldly express it, be an independent person.

Correct communication with a man

As is known, male and female psychology has many differences. And the way you communicate with a friend, may not like a man. Let's try to figure out how to behave, what to say and how to arrange for a man - an interlocutor.

  1. A woman's mistake in communicating with a man is that a woman indefinitely for a man offers a conversation topic. For example, instead of saying "We need to talk", explain to the man all that you put into this phrase. It is desirable to describe in detail its meaning.
  2. Do not speak out loud about your problems, complaints. Men are so arranged that they either automatically start looking for you for solving this problem, or they think if you talk about it with them, it means that he is to blame for this.
  3. Men feel silence. It is not necessary to pull out from the interlocutor the opinion of any incident, etc. If the man wants, he to you about it will inform.

The book about the correct communication

It will not be superfluous to read books about the art of communication:

  1. J. Gray "Men from Mars, women from Venus".
  2. A. Panfilova "Practice and communication theory".
  3. S. Berdyshev "Technology of interaction with difficult clients".

Everyone is capable of mastering the techniques of right communication. This requires only a desire and purpose.