From TV screens, we are increasingly being asked to solve all our problems and turn Cinderella into a princess. All kinds of shows about reincarnation, weight loss or style change completely transform the woman and change her attitude to herself. One such solution seems the best. The heroines appear in the image of brave women, who decided to make themselves anew. The other exact view is the opposite - this is the simplest way, but the effect from it will be short-lived. How often have you seen post-shows, where they tell about the improvements in the life of those young ladies who have dyed their hair and updated the wardrobe?
Work and again work
As the famous Madame Coco Chanel used to say, if a woman is not beautiful, she is simply stupid. Indeed, the high intellect and several diplomas from the most prestigious universities are not yet a guarantee of women's happiness.
Many foreign and domestic selebreti have external data, very far from cherished parameters, but at the same time they become icons of style. For example, Scarlett Johansson . Agree that the thin waistline or the growth of the model, it can not boast. But at the same time she remains the muse of Woody Allen and is often called the new Monroe. Scarlett is so confident in her irresistibility that everyone around simply does not dare to doubt it.
And what should we do, mere mortals? Yes the same!
- All the complexes come from childhood. This is the truth and there is no doubt about it. It is necessary first of all to convince yourself of your irresistibility, and only then of the rest. Take all the shortcomings and submit them in the form of raisins.
- Job. Most girls often feel sorry for themselves, they say, nature has conceived it. Nature and did not think to give you too much or on the contrary to take it away. All our short legs, full thighs or too narrow eyes with the right attitude will turn into something special. So boldly go into the Internet to find master classes on make-up, tips from stylists and trendy novelties of the seasons.
- Start living under the motto "I'm either lazy or beautiful." How often do we decide not to paint our nails, because tomorrow they started cleaning up, or do not wash their hair for the weekend (it's still sitting at home, after all). It's all laziness. You can clean and gloves, and pacing around the house with a terrible tail and slippers on bare feet and do not respect yourself.
Where does beauty come from?
Most of what we do every day, the brain does automatically. You do not think about how to hold a fork, how to press a pencil or do other everyday activities. It is a habit. Having learned once, we do not pay attention to these trifles and everything happens naturally.
A person has enough weeks to develop a new habit. Agree, only a week of productive work on yourself is worth the results you are dreaming of? The first thing to be highlighted is the problematic moments. Do you remember how I work in a fashion show about reincarnation? First, they look for the root causes of the problems of the heroine, then solve them with a psychological foreshortening, and already on the way to proceed to external changes.
Begin at least occasionally to buy fashionable high-quality publications. There you will find tips for stylists, new fashion and tips for caring for yourself. Next, grab your wardrobe. To buy many new things at once is inexpedient and expensive. It is better to start with the purchase of several parts of the basic wardrobe. At the same time, be sure to approach with knowledge of the matter: critically consider yourself in the mirror and highlight the strengths and weaknesses.
And in the end the most important, but the most uninteresting. Stop being sorry! When a patient needs to make a painful injection, he knows about the impending pain, but he is ready for this for the sake of recovery. Do the same.